Devastated
I found out that my boyfriend (8 years in a relationship) cheated on me several times. I left him in December because I found out he had a *** account full of girls without telling me and today I saw pictures of him from July kissing another girl. When I confronted him, he didn't wanted to answer and blocked me... We were planning our wedding and I had to cancel everything. The pain is unbearable and I can't move on.
@Needsomehelp009 sits next too you and hugs you tightly ❤I'm so sorry sweetie that's just horrible😞 it's just mind blowing his some people choose to act. We are all here for you, don't be afraid to reach out to a listener ❤ or just vent here, we are listening and we care ❤
@Tinywhisper11 thank you! Means a lot to me!
@Needsomehelp009 how are feeling right now?? Is there anything I can do?
@Tinywhisper11 I just want to stop the pain for a minute and don't think about him anymore but it's too soon I think. And you listening means a lot to me. How are you doing
@Needsomehelp009 I'm doing ok ❤ what's your favourite thing to do?
@Tinywhisper11 are you new to this site?
@Tinywhisper11 yes I'm new :) . I used to like watch movies and go on walks and what's your fav thing to do?
@Needsomehelp009 oh movies I know absolutely nothing about. But walks sound nice ❤ me i like to paint and make things
@Tinywhisper11 do you live with your family? I'm sorry I'm trying to change the topic, but if you want to talk about anything we can
@Tinywhisper11 oh that's nice! Your keep your mind busy for some time :)
@Needsomehelp009 yeah art is really fun
@Tinywhisper11 Sadly I don't have any talent or creativity for that :')
@Needsomehelp009 hey that's ok ❤ oh and by the way welcome to cups ❤ this is the bestest place ever ❤ the group chat rooms are a great place to vent and make friends ❤
@Tinywhisper11 you know I've never actually had a relationship or ever plan to have one either. I have a baby bunny gizmo. He's 7 months old, he's going to get neutered on Wednesday, it's a simple operation. But still worried about him
@Tinywhisper11 oh I hope everything is going to be fine !! It's normal you're worried. Did you ask all the questions you wanted to know to the veterinarian?
@Needsomehelp009 well not really I don't go outside of the care home grounds. So my carers are taking him back and forth. My carers always know the best things to do. They actually got him for me, to cheer me up when I went through a bad patch. We not supposed to have animals at the care home, but they did some calls. And he's now classes as my therapy pet, every one here loves him ❤ do you have it want any pets?
@Tinywhisper11 so sweet of them. Pets are really good to cheer people up. And I'm glad to know your bunny is doing you some good ❤️ no I don't, I have difficulties to take care of myself so I can't have a pet right now but I would like a bunny too actually
@Needsomehelp009 yeah let's are not easy😁 lukily my cleaner kindly cleans him out in the morning and gives him fresh food and water. Then through out the day my carers clean up any mess he makes, and the gardener built a run for him in the garden by the willow tree, my favourite place to go and sit😁 I can do little bits, and he is potty trained, and has claimed my room as his own😂😂 tw) but I'm stuck in a chair, half paralysed so all I can really do his hug him show him lots of love and give him all my attention
@Tinywhisper11 btw I'm not rich😂😂😂😂 I live in a old folks nursing home, I'm only 23 so it's not ideal but it's safe here for me ❤ do you like the cold or warm weather?
@Tinywhisper11 haha oke oke, it's so cold right now and I like the summer or fall the most and you ?
@Tinywhisper11 oh I'm sorry .. how you dealing with that. Hope you doing good ❤️
@Needsomehelp009 I'm doing good😁 ❤ I like the warm months to say under the willow tree, watching the sunrise, drinking coffee it's just a great way to start the day. Can I ask are you taking care of yourself right now? I mean with like eating, sleeping,?
@Tinywhisper11 oh like your vision of the warm month haha. Not really .. I don't eat I especially can't sleep. This site is my first step to do something since that day
I am so sorry to hear that. It must be so painful. Sending comfort and peace your way. Praying god to look after you. 💙
@determinedKite6863 thank you .. still can't realise it's over.
I understand. You will need a lot of time to process this, to finally accept it. Take all the time you need. Your heart will heal with time.
@Needsomehelp009 and this is a great step, you should be proud of yourself ❤ I'm proud of you, it's not always easy to reach out for help. Remember if you want to find a listener you can browse through to pick the right one for you. Also I mentioned the group chat rooms are awsome. And the forums right here, are great to get support and others advice ❤ your doing really well, and because of that you should probably spoil yourself tonight, order a nice takeaway and relax with a great movie
@Tinywhisper11 thank you very much! I'm glad I've met you! You're a great person. And I will try but I don't think I'll be able to do anything
@Needsomehelp009 awww it's nice to have met you too ❤ your very sweet ❤and yeah it's ok, just take things at your own pace. I can only imagine how much this as affected you mentally😥 like I said we are all here to listen and support you in any way we can ❤
@Tinywhisper11 thank you for listening to me! Hope everything is gonna be fine for your little bunny :)
@Needsomehelp009 thankyou ❤ I'll be around for a little bit longer if you still want to talk ❤ hugs you tightly ❤
@Tinywhisper11 hugd back*
@Needsomehelp009
I am so sorry to hear this, I am going through a breakup too, it's been 6 months, i understand when we are not able to move on, I already had ocd and bpd so the anxiety just kills, but your situation is way more sad, I am sorry to know that.
@Art7 every break up is sad! How long were you together?
How old are you
@Sable2 26 y
@Needsomehelp009 just checking in ❤ how are you doing today? Have you explored this site a bit??
@Tinywhisper11 yes I explored the groups, thanks. And it's hard, I'm trying to move one but the pain is still intense
@Needsomehelp009 the groups can be great ❤❤ I'm glad your f inding your way around ❤ I know your going through alot right now. It can't be easy bless you, but we are all here for you ❤ gives you a giant tiny hug ❤
@Tinywhisper11 how are you doing today
@Needsomehelp009 well actually the most horrible thing has happened 😱😱yep! That's right I lost my voice 😲😲I am intact now a tiny whisper 😥
😂😂 other than that I'm doing well ❤