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Divorcing a Narcissist

User Profile: billball12345
billball12345 November 5th, 2022

One day I want to write a guide book about how to deal with all the aggression and attacks that gets thrown at you relentlessly, and how you can be strong as an ox and fight back and overcome the trauma. But meanwhile, I just wanna hide under the duvet and not surface.

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User Profile: 4jujuu
4jujuu November 5th, 2022

U know my mom was in ur shoe and she would say the exact same thing before she completely healed from what he did to her. That of course took a lot of time and effort.

i suggest you try to realize what he did and accept it and try to heal from it step by step

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User Profile: billball12345
billball12345 OP November 6th, 2022

@4jujuu Sorry to hear your mum went through it and I’m glad she’s healed. From what I read online about people’s experiences it takes ages and ages because the narcissist want to attack to get a reaction. Comforting to hear of a light at the end of the tunnel.

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User Profile: inflow
inflow February 11th, 2023

@billball12345

OH I feel that....

User Profile: Thanhx4
Thanhx4 February 11th, 2023

@billball12345

Hi billball12345, I hope you know that what you are doing is very hard and takes a lot of courage, whether dealing with a narcissist or not. This sounds like a very hard time for you, but I want you to know that you have a support group here ❤️

User Profile: willingAsh5735
willingAsh5735 February 12th, 2023

Hello everyone,

Actually asking for help here. If any of you know any place/ person or an organization that would be willing to help me in a huge coercive control plot. Please. I beg for support. No place to turn to because of the strange laws of the country I live. But I really wish for consultation and any kinds of support.


Hope anyone would turn around. If anyone would will be willingly give any info

User Profile: greenTalker5250
greenTalker5250 February 12th, 2023

Completely understand. Lived that with my parents my sister and two husbands. I never seem to learn.


In your shoes I stayed under the covers until I felt strong enough to come out. I do eventually every time. But I still have days I am totally paralysed with fear of people.