Frustrated n stuck n TX
Everydays a fight, sometimes it starts before I even wake up. Feel like I'm waking in a warzone immediately attacked and defending myself the moment my eyes open. I do nothing but work and take care of my home. Have no more hobbies or friends. all money, time and energy go to her but it's never enough it's never right been walking on eggshells so long my feet bleed. I know I need to leave but Everytime I try she's mildly nice an I let it pull me back in what is wrong with me ð¤¦
@LostnTexas are you okay? bad relationship? what’s up
If mildly nice is her new peak, Her infrequent peak, That means she has severely changed into a completely different person from who you chose. If she’s kind when you almost leave, It means that her being mean is optional and she does so because she can. I don’t think you should feel bad about leaving someone Who in no way resembles who they Pretended to be at first. The hard part is you have no excess time or energy To realize that Out there in the world are people who If you are good to them, they are good to you. It’s also hard because if you leave Your life will get 20% harder for a short time….. Then one day Not long from now you will realize the absence of a negative force made your life 500% better.
@LostnTexas
There is nothing wrong with you, you are just human, that's it.
We all have our flaws and it is okay to think we are "betraying ourselves", but your words talk a lot about a person that is nullifying himself. Beofre taking any decision, try to take back some time for you. For your hobbies, your friends. With time, they will give you the strength to act, in a way or another.
Taking a time out wouldn't be a bad idea