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HOW MOVING ON FROM FRIENDS FEELS LIKE.

User Profile: dunnoulwa
dunnoulwa April 14th

Recently i came across a reel which was captioned as tell in comment section u moved on from them without actually telling u moved on from them...

I got a text few mins ago it said ( where are u I'm missing u) and

My instant thought was ...Good u are supposed to...bcz no iam not going back thr just bcz i chose peace over fighting that doesn't mean i forgot everything.

I'll never stay and never ever wanna stay in a place where iam a choice.

IAM MOT GOING TO STAY IN A PLACE WHERE I FEEL DISRESPECTED FROM PEOPLE I GAVE SO MUCH THAT EVEN WORLD SCREAMED THAT I GAVE SO MUCH

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User Profile: Spiritriver
Spiritriver April 16th

@dunnoulwa

 I'm glad that you're finding peace. Being in a place where your disrespected, really hurts self-esteem and confidence. You don't deserve that.


You chose peace over fighting. Perhaps you can't forget and you probably shouldn't. No longer being vulnerable can help make the memory less painful.


Working in nursing homes and memory care centers meant that being disrespected was part of the job. When you know someone is not in their right mind, they are easy to forgive, no matter how abusive they are. I have come around to the belief that when anyone, regardless of age or cognitive status, is disrespectful, they cannot be in their right minds, at least not from the standpoint of credibility.