How to seek help, if it does it worse
One thing is being in pain and doing self care to reduce pain. So at least the pain gets reduced in the end. But if you seek help and people say hurtful things, doesn't provide a listening ear. After that you feel worse than before and you would need double effort to reduce the pain. So should one seek help? Right now I don't feel like working hard and affirming that "I tried my best", I'm in so much pain. I can't even enjoy movies, and movies are like (TW) drugs to me, they take my attention away from everything. I can't focus on anything.
@floatingLeaf4973 awww sweetie I understand, I have constant pain. So I know it's so draining so uncomfortable😞 but yes you are gonna need to reach out to a doctor. And don't listen to toxic people. You need help this is abouts you not anyone else. Although people words can really affect you😢 but please reach out ❤
@Tinywhisper11
By the way I'm really sorry you are constantly in pain too. Sending you much love and thank you for your compassionate response <3
@floatingLeaf4973 I'm glad you have good doctors. But at any point where you feel worse please reach out. Even if it's on here to talk to someone ❤❤ highs you ❤
@Tinywhisper11
No I said I don't have good doctors
@floatingLeaf4973 oh yeah that's right sorry sweetie. I'm always here to give you a hug ❤
I didn't have good doctors either and have gone through years of pain, disability and just misery. I thought it was too late for help too. I finally have good medical doctors through my husband's insurance but could lose them. I hope not. I also finally got in therapy after decades of saying I didn't need it.
It's always worth it. The other options are no good. Do you have MDVIP docs in your area? They cost more per year, but mine found me so many resources.
If you don't have the money (I know I don't) or none of those docs in the area, I also tried government sponsored programs tailored to my condition. You can often get grants, in clinical trials for free, and different areas offer different programs. It's so hard to find good doctors who don't treat you like a number or cattle
If I can help in any way, please let me know. I don't want anyone to go through that. It's awful. 😊
@Warpedme
That was really funny haha. And I'm sorry you went through so much and had an attempt. No one should go through this and I'm sorry you did. And many other people do, saying this so you don't feel alone. I'm proud of you for how you're still trying and working hard. Sending you lots of love and comfort <3
@Warpedme
You're welcome :) Glad I could help :)
@Tinywhisper11
I don't have good doctors, where have I fallen.
