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I feel excluded in this place

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ItzVesper09 June 21st

Yes, that's it, I won't even bother making an entire exaggerated post, the title is self-explanatory.

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@ItzVesper09

How come?

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ItzVesper09 OP June 21st

@Amazinggracethatsavedawretchlikeme
If I say the reasons I'll be censored.

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ItzVesper09 OP June 21st

@ItzVesper09
It just feels toxic

@ItzVesper09

I am sorry to hear. Maybe give it little bit more time and chance? My experience was positive one. For sure, you wont find places like these online

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ItzVesper09 OP July 5th

@Amazinggracethatsavedawretchlikeme Late reply but heh I've been here for 2 years

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User Profile: raphael86
raphael86 June 22nd

@ItzVesper09 Sadly, I get that feeling 😞

Back when I was a member here, I didn't often feel supported and sometimes felt a little more alone after posting than I had before I posted. Myself and many others try to make sure no one feels that way but it's hard 🙁 and I'm sorry that difficulty has to affect you. 

On second thought I just saw your comment on the other post so I know it's not actually about that 😕 maybe reach out to me? We can chat about it, I'd like to know what feels off to you

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Amanda84 June 22nd

@ItzVesper09

I'm sorry you feel this way.

I just want you to know I hear you and I hope you feel more welcome 💙

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@ItzVesper0.   I am so sorry that you feel that way, you are always free to reach out. I would always be happy to talk to you <3

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ItzVesper09 OP July 4th

@ItzVesper09 I suffered discriminatory (bordering racism) targeting here last night
Welp just further proves my point

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ItzVesper09 OP July 4th

@ItzVesper09 It's odd, I have been in this... "place" for like almost 2 years by now, yet still feel like a newbie

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ItzVesper09 OP July 4th

@ItzVesper09 I know it isn't my fault though. Or at least I hope it isn't

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ItzVesper09 OP July 4th

@ItzVesper09
And I actually have the feeling that my bio, specially my hobbies, may be being weaponized.
Since my game and music tastes, as well as a few other hobbies, are vastly different from others' here

Because I do not play or listen to only calm or cozy stuff

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AReine July 5th

Sorry you feel like that. If you want to chat i am happy to listen to you.

I'm so sorry you feel excluded here. Please know that there are many people here willing to listen and support you (I'm one of those people).

Hope you feel better and more included as time goes by. Don't hesitate to reach out! You're not alone 🤗💜

User Profile: Luminity125
Luminity125 July 5th

@ItzVesper09

I'm sorry to hear you're not feeling supported. Even though this place is all about support and accepting each other, some people do get excluded, sometimes unintentionally.

Please know there are many people here who would be more than happy if you reach out to them for a chat, even an informal one (I'd be glad if I speak for myself).

Personally I don't know you too well, but from what little we have talked in the tcr and from your bio, I find you to be a really interesting person and would love to get to know you better if you want. Just let us know what we can do to make you feel more seen and heard and I'm sure many with me will try their best. My PM's are always open if you want to chat. Take care Vesper! 💖