I have a question??
Hi I'm lola ❤ it's my sons 12th birthday on the 30 th of July. He's in heaven now. And I want to do it give him something really special. But I have no idea what 12 year old boys really want. Suggestions welcome????
@Tinywhisper11 maybe I could send up a balloon with a special message in
@Tinywhisper11 That sounds really nice. It might be very comforting to send him a message.
@gbrenna 🙂 thanks for your support
@Tinywhisper11 This sounds like a really beautiful way to wish him a happy birthday Tiny ❤️ I agree with @gbrenna a message would be nice. You could even write him a poem or just a letter saying how much you love him
@mytwistedsoul I have wrote a couple of poems for him in the past. So yeah maybe a poem ❤❤ thanks ❤
Boys love video games so maybe a videogame themed cake?
@Britishcoconut 🤔🤔🤔 yes that's a great idea ❤ thankyou
i lost my 23 year old son 2 years ago today. I spoke with a medium my friends who passed away mother invited me to a support group on that helped so much.
@luvmykids1973 sorry for your loss ❤ and thank you for the resource ❤❤
Start a foundation or an NGO, non profit for a cause he would have been passionate about. One that you can contribute hard work, effort and resources toward. That kind of gift will have a favorable outcome for more than just you and him and is a legacy you can be proud to say you both created Lola.
@RoxyFantastic the ones I want to help the most😞 I cant
Your vary welcome. I know the medium had to be talking to him because of stuff that she knew when I was alone in my car. I have experienced seeing prof for myself when my uncle passed & that’s who I named my son after. I started a blog to be able to write when ever I need to & been reading lots of afterlife books that helps to. I had to keep my mind busy.
That’s very interesting claiming that you’re claiming to be 22? You must have been 9 or 10 when you were pregnant?
@Milo19 yes I gave birth when I was 11
@Tinywhisper11 my past wasn't a normal one 😞
@Tinywhisper11
I know, I’ve been reading quite a few of your posts. It’s just not adding up…
@Milo19 I'd be happy to clear up any confusion
@Tinywhisper11 You know the truth, that's all that matters, you went through *** on earth, something most people wouldn't understand, but you never have to clear up anything, you only share if it benefits you 💜💕
Amen <3 Everyone deals with different things. Not everyone can understand them. And that’s ok <3 You don’t need to justify yourself to us or anyone else <3
Also, the youngest mother in history was 5 years old. Do with that information what you will… People can be SICK and disgusting :’(
@Tinywhisper11 Hey little Sister I heard that skateboarding is making a comeback you to could be “ Hot Wheels” together. I will always love you Tiny my little Sister Whisper.
@OnlyDarkness ❤ 🙂❤ a skateboard, that's a great idea. Thanks big brother ❤ I love you ❤
@OnlyDarkness
Dark this is such a great idea! I think Joshua will absolutely love it👌
@Tinywhisper
You truly are a loving mum. Lots of love, Butterfly ❤️❤️
@ChillywindMemories I love you angel ❤❤
When I was 12 I think I got my 1st smartphone or a 3ds but both was fun
Awww you had a son <3
I'm so sorry he's gone. I know you were, or would have been, a great mom. <3
@jesusredeemedme2425 🙂 he's a angel in heaven now ❤ he'll be 13 this year ❤❤
@Tinywhisper11
Awww... I bet you miss him so much <3 And I bet he loved you with all his heart <3 He's part of you <3
@jesusredeemedme2425 I do miss him. I would do anything to have him back 😥. My carers put a cross under the willow tree in the garden for him. When it's warm enough weather, like it has been the past couple of days. My favourite way to start the day, is to go sit under the willow tree, watch the sunrise, a cup of coffee, birds flying around. And I just sit there and talk to God and my son joshua ❤
@Tinywhisper11
Tiny. Maybe this is wrong of me to say, but I have been thinking of it. Virgin Mary and you have something in common. You both saw your sons dying.
@Helgafy yes we did 😥😥 and so many others have too. It's heartbreaking. But yes mother Mary is a strong figure ❤
@Tinywhisper11
That is so sweet <3 And it sounds so peaceful <3