I think my dad is ashamed of me ;(
I want to get an advice and I can't find someone to talk privatly so I want to ask here
I think my dad is ashamed of me, I am a 17 year old boy and my dad is 39 years old, I am all the oposite of him..., I am short (5'8) and I am obese, also I have other problems like acne, etc. My dad otherwise is very tall (6'4) and very muscular (with six-pack and all) and a very handsome man, he is nice with me at home and even affectionate with me, but he didn't like to hang out with me and do things in family with me , I also have a 4 year old little sister, and he do a lot of things with her, and post photos with her and talking about her with other with proud, and he didn't did that with me ;(. He likes to post photos of him shirtless, flexing abs, training at gym and also photos with my mom and my little sister but he didn't have any photo of me or with me... and didn't talk about me with his friends or other people. That's break my heart because I love him very much and I believed that I am disgrace...
I don't know what to do for my dad to love me again, I miss him a lot... ;( I would like to have an advice
@Argen200300 Hey, you should not feel ashamed of yourself. Also, you are not short. Sometimes genetics will be passed to make other people gain weight easier than others, or have a slower metabolism. That is not your fault. It also sounds like your father is not nice, because he is purposefully discluding you. You should talk to him about this. It also sounds like your dad works out a lot. Maybe you can ask him for help and try working out with him?