Overthinking
Hi!! I’m new to 7 cups, so I decided to come here because I’ve been having a rough time these days.
I’ve been overthinking a lot. I’m currently on an exchange program, and have been trying to make friends with the other people in the program. It seems to be going well, as everyone talks to each other, but I just can’t seem to shake the feeling that I’m disliked or “under” liked compared to others. I’m still invited to go out places, but whenever I show up, it just seems that nobody is excited to talk to me, even over text. They all seem so distant or even bothered that I’m there. I try to talk to everyone and make a effort, but it just seems like they don’t want to make the effort back to me because maybe it’s because they don’t like my personality or looks.
I still have a small group I often talk to, but sometimes it still feels like they get tired of me, and it stresses me out.
Maybe I’m just overthinking this, but it’s just nice to at least talk about it.
@raspberryKitten4539
Well the fact that you are actively reaching out to people is great!
People are dubious creatures, it's always challenging to relate to people. With practice and getting more experience things are gonna get easier..
So you are not the problem your part of the solution 🌲
Yes it is... You can text me if you want someone to talk to
Yes it is... You can text me if you want someone to talk to
You can text me
