Question
Whats the best way to do when you know your bestfriend is hurting and when you ask them they mostly be like “i dont wanna talk about it i just dont want it to hurt me more” what can i do to help them heal? Especially the person whos hurting them they still in relationship with them and love them even tho that person hurts my bestfriend so much
@exuberantNorth4447 Hi! I hope you are doing well! I want you to know that you are an amazing friend and it shows how much you care about them ❤️ I know it can be frustrating when you want to help your friend but they aren't really ready for help. I think the best thing to do for a friend when they are feeling sad is to ask what you can do to best help them. If they still say nothing, maybe just sending a text saying "I'm here for you" or showing up with coffee shows you are there for them! Some people do best healing on their own, but know that you are an amazing friend regardless! 😊
Thank you so much frr i do these before but ill tru to mention them again for her just in case once again thank youuu
@exuberantNorth4447 That's all you can do 💜 You're doing a great job! 😊 Try not to be too hard on yourself!
Just love them through it. Accept their decision to stay and just give them the support they need. That's not always advice. A lot of times it is just being there. When they tell you what's going on don't give advice just let them vent and let them know you are there.