Really struggling with it all
Hi. I am new here. I am struggling with emotions and decisions right now. I can't figure out the chats in here. I have been with my bf for 3 years. We have arguments all the time. I don't feel he listens to me. And last night he really hurt me so hard that I have not spoken to him at all today. I am contemplating moving out and moving on. He calls me crazy and psycho. I have tried I feel statements and everything. I am so inove with this man. But after the disrespect last night, I am not sure I can be with him.
@allconfusedinside Hi, I'm glad you are reaching out about this, talking to people is always the first step. If you are struggling to use 7cups's chat features, I would suggest going here: https://www.7cups.com/about/howitworks.php
Your boyfriend sounds like someone who doesn't respect you, and as in love with him as you might be, you deserve so much better than what he is currently giving you. Nobody deserves to be called crazy or psycho under any circumstances. I know it can be heartbreaking to have to call off a relationship, especially when you still have feelings for your boyfriend, but it will cause more damage in the long term to remain with someone who verbally and emotionally hurts you.
It is obviously easy for someone like me who is not in your situation to say things like this. And it takes courage to stand up to people you care about and say "no". But I hope that you are able to find this courage inside of you one day - and one day soon - to cut this toxic person out of your life, because you truly deserve so much more. And remember that people care about you and want the very best for you.
I hope your situation works out for you, and I wish you a very good day/night wherever you are.
@allconfusedinside I feel like I am psycho all the time, I definitely have a mood disorder but it doesn't define me. I have a wonderful man who doesn't judge me and who supports me. Often, he doesn't know how to respond but when I am feeling better, I share with him words and actions that would help me in the situation. He is open to learning how to help me. He truly loves me even when I am at my worst. My panic really does a number on our lives but I am working on it and he travels this journey with me, never getting angry. YOU TOO, can have someone who supports you. You deserve someone who truly loves you. LOVE is patient, love is kind..love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. You deserve true love. I hope you feel better soon and I hope you find strength to push through this time. I am thinking about you and saying a little prayer too.