Stressed
Hi guys how i can solve my problems? Mu brother blocked me on social media and other accounts i don't know why he did that to my as his young brothers, I'm so stressed rn I'm always checking his account in my dump account i always check his account if he is online or he have a new post and if he read my messages but di did not reading my messages he blocked me yesterday so I'm so sad rn i really missed him we don't have conversations rn i miss him so much😭😭😭
@Harrish
I'm really sorry you are struggling and he did this.
I hope it gets sorted soon 🩷
@Harrish We often do a poor job of communicating our needs, the dominant culture trains us to do it poorly. If someone doesn't do the dishes, for example, that might impact someone's need to have them done but rather than expressing it in such a way as to ensure it might actually get done, a person might just call someone else lazy for not doing them. Shame is a poor motivator.
What's perhaps more difficult is when people don't communicate at all. One thing we can do to make things a little easier is to start listening for needs. It's possible that your brother is meeting his need to isolate, a fairly common coping mechanism for many people, I can personally attest to this.
However your need of talking to him cannot be met at the moment, as it may interfere with his. Is there anyone else you can engage with while giving your brother as much space as he needs?