The tragedy of being soft hearted
I thought that maybe because I have such a big heart and big expressive emotions, I’d meet someone who would complement that. 2 failed, and one breaking down relationship later and I realise that maybe that is not the case unfortunately. The one relationship that I felt seen in, he ended up cheating on me and breaking up with me through a mutual friend. I give up on love. I don’t think I’ll ever receive love, only made to give it. Feels unfair and so dysregulating
Hello @amicableCake1705.
I believe you are being too hard on yourself...
Try to focus on the positive and the positive is you got experience from being in these two relationships. Also you explored your fantasies. It just wasn't the right people i believe.
Sending you good vibes ✨️
Actually I think I want to be happy being alone. It’s fine
Hello @amicableCake1705.
That's a great idea! Everybody must decide what they want.
I wish you much success with your plan!
I was actually like you but out of nowhere my one true love came out of nowhere and changed my life.
Hi @amicableCake1705.
I have been thinking about your post. I think it triggered me.
I am upset that these 2 dudes hurt you...
There is a quote from the song "women in chains " by tears for fears and the quote is "You better love loving and you better behave. "
I spent 15 years alone because of abuse and it was harmful to me..
Anyways I wish you safe travels ✨️🌟
I’m sorry to hear that you went through that…Thank you for sharing your insight and story. I wish you happiness and peace 🙌
I admire the open hearted, at least they put themselves out there bravely. Mine is closed off.
It's your life and you know what's best, but later on, if you ever decide to start mingling again, just take it really slowly :)
Or you’ll learn to love and care for yourself so much you won’t need another person in life , and if you do meet someone, you’ll be wise enough to know he’s the right one
@amicableCake1705
It's unfortunate that you had those experiences, but that doens't define your future. I know you will be able to find true love eventually.