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User Profile: FoxyToxy
FoxyToxy August 9th, 2025

I'm tired of being alone and being surrounded by couples. It makes me angry, makes me feel even more lonely.

I hate my friends who are dating, I can't communicate with them when they are together, but I can when one of them is alone. I hate to see how they love each other, call each other by affectionate nicknames, tell each other about the moments of their meetings, plans, etc.

I just want the same, I also want to be loved, but many people leave me, it makes me angry, how am I worse? A simple desire to be loved and to love, but as a result I remain alone and hated despite my efforts. I

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User Profile: Tulipsmile
Tulipsmile August 9th, 2025

@FoxyToxy

I hope my comment don't bother you.....

I  understand your feeling of loneliness and frustration. It's incredibly painful to be surrounded by happy couples while you yearn for the same connection yourself. I want you to know that your feelings are valid and you have every right to feel this way. It's not your fault that you're experiencing these emotions and it doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. You're not less than anyone else and you absolutely deserve to be loved and to love someone in return. Don't ever let this feeling of being left out diminish your self worth because you're more than worthy of finding the love and happiness you desire. I genuinely hope that you find someone who cherishes you completely and that you experience the joy of a fulfilling relationship.

User Profile: MZhang
MZhang August 10th, 2025

Well that's totally normal it's okay to feel this way.

Back in time I had the same feeling as you do: I wanted to be loved and cared, to reduce longliness, perhaps?

Of couse it's not your fault that they left you (maybe they did not notice how amazing you are but that don't let that devalue you and that doesn't mean you are not important) and I believe there will be someone for you, cherishes you and loves you for who you are. Perhaps they are already on their way to meet you!

Well when I feel alone I try to focus on my own hobbies and I find that even more thrilling that unmeaningful social interactions or relationships so I would suggest that you could take this opportunity to something that you are really interested it? Sometimes I think relationships are fragile and temporary but these are always yours better than whatever

Again, I totally understand your feeling because that used to happen to be and it was truly a hard time but here I am and I think you will find your way out! You deserve to be loved and supported and someone will definately see that in the future so don't feel discouraged! You are the best!

If you need someone you can dm me I'll be happy to talk to you~

User Profile: Midori0212
Midori0212 August 10th, 2025

@FoxyToxy Sound like you're so lonely~ hug hug

User Profile: GentleListener333
GentleListener333 August 10th, 2025

It can be hard to be exposed to what you yearning for. When you see others it or are surrounded by couples, it reminder of what you want but are still waiting to have. Angry is a expected emotion and you have those feels towards your friends because you may feel like their relationships are being rub in your face. Your not worse because people aren't able to come in and understand the reason for how you feel and take time to help work through those emotions. Love will come your way you just have to take this time to focus on you until it does come your way, and when it happens for you let that person fully. Have a honest conversation with them. I hope everything works out the way you desire it