Why am I like this?

Hi! I'm sorry that you had to go through this. I can feel you and you're heard. 💛

I want to share something with you. I used to feel the same way in past and then I realised with time that it wasn't my fault. It's not your fault to trust people and care for them, it's theirs for not respecting it. Your kindness deserves to be appreciated. 🎈

At the same time, I want to tell you that you should be your priority. Not because you shouldn't care about people but because you need to care about yourself too. I'm saying this because of a few reasons I'd like to explain.

First one being, sometimes others treat us the way we treat ourselves. If we're not respectful about ourselves then they feel like it is the standard and is normal which should not be. It should not be a behaviour expected from them. Right? 🌸

Second, when we don't take care of ourselves we tend to put some extra burden on the people around us. They start feeling that they will have to take care of us if we aren't treating ourselves well and it becomes a pressure to be a certain way. Because not everyone is you. 💛

So, start making yourself your priority and then you'll attract people who are like you. The ones you find along your journey and you are not dependent upon them because you're whole on your own. You just stay with them because it makes you both happy. 🩷

You deserve to be taken care of.

You can to listeners and join member community rooms here and talk to different people. That might help you feel less alone. I hope you find the support you need. 🎈☘️

Sending hugs and healing! 💛

@MoonlightX1003

I can understand that it must be tough for you to feel this way, and I want you to know that your feelings are valid. It can be hurtful and discouraging when you feel like you're giving your best 💛 and caring deeply for others, but it doesn't seem to be reciprocated in the same way.

It's important to remember that people's actions and emotions are influenced by their own experiences, perceptions, and struggles. While you may be doing your best to support and care for them, they might have their own challenges that affect how they respond to you.

As a listener, I encourage you to focus on self-compassion and self-care. It's essential to be kind to yourself and recognize that your worth is not determined by others' actions or reactions. Take the time to prioritize your well-being and seek out relationships that are mutually supportive and nurturing 🫂🤗.

Remember, you deserve to be loved and cared for just as much as you love and care for others. Surround yourself with people who appreciate and cherish you for who you are 💛❤️.