addiction and what not.
even when I haven't smoked in about 2 months, its all I think about. what I crave. I know once I hit the legal age, im stocking up on cigarettes and carts lol
also is it ok to not want to have close relationships or any for that matter?
@Emasculated hi ❤ if smoking helps you, then I don't see anything wrong with that. Actually saw a poster of a pack of Marlboro ciggarettes with the words 'we are all going to d!e anyway" 😂😂😂😂 and yep, I'm 23 and have never dated, not do I want to. As long as your happy, well that's all that matters ❤ gives you a giant tiny hug ❤
@Tinywhisper11 Sometimes I feel dated when they tell me I'm wise for my age but I have the maturity of a spring pup. The word dating has gone the way of courting, now I picture harvesting dates and defeating a tantrumming Serena Williams.
@competentTruth3079 😂😂😂😂😂 best way to be ❤ never age on the inside ❤ I have heard the word courting alot, it makes me giggle😁😁😁😁
@Tinywhisper11 From the tiniest whispers come the largest insights. That's why I try to listen to the wind and the quietest person in the room. I both cry and laugh with you dear, some things are not so easy to address like a letter with a forever stamp. Perhaps I work for the USPS to deliver letters on the roads of the collective unconscious. I am sure to thank my delivery driver they work hard.
@Emasculated All my cat puffs are rolled up mouse cigars, leaves their butts on the doormat. He also has very few friends and is a predator in the night, so I think it's normal for some species. 😹💯 Hope you're doing well friend, that GIF is fun.
@Emasculated Yes, it is totally okay!
It's probably not a coincidence that you talk about smoking and close relationships in the same topic
Smoking is a substitute for close relationships/intimacy. You know you are better off with the latter than the former but it is a lot easier to pick up and smoke a cigarette and get that instant reward than it is to develop a close relationship
@Emasculated
uhm clearly u want to be alone? well do u like being alone? or do u actually want to have some light of your own
I’m just a member but I don’t think so, yet I can relate to that exact feeling. I’m just a kid but relationships seem so important to me for the human experience and growth and a lot of the good things in my life would be nonexistent without those ties with people. I understand the feeling of having to commit to someone or friends mentally being taxing but I think real friends would understand and respect your reluctance to be as invested.
