my bf
so me and my "boyfriend" have been dating for 2 months. just this morning, he told me he was just "using me" and that i was fat, ugly, etc. i feel so used and worthless. i was used before but not this bad. i wrote him a note saying that i was breaking up with him. im scared that he'll blab my business of to the entire school! i have no idea what to do....
@Lexieisnonbinary
what the ***. i am so sorry . my bf also told me he was using me and playing me. It isnt easy, but, I am so sorry . I dont know why people have the audacity to say that...
@CalifasBlanca07 i swearrr thats such a heartless thing to do
Just … WOW! Some people really behave disgracefully! Just be glad things are ending with him I suppose. Honestly some people are just lessons for us to realize that we can do better!
He’s the one that should be embarrassed! if he thought that’s the proper way to treat a human being then there’s definitely something wrong with him.
CatsInTheCradle
I’m so sorry this happened to you. This guy sounds like a jerk and that he did you a favor. No one deserves to be treated this way.
Maybe you can flip this situation. Maybe you can look at it like he freed you to find someone who will value you, even if that person is you. Maybe this is happening because you haven’t been valuing yourself and need to. When we value ourselves, we tell these people to go away before they have the opportunity to do this. In other words, we are more selective bc we take more time to get to know others.
I’m so proud of you for breaking up with him and taking back your power!!! No matter what he says, you can always tell people it isn’t true and he’s just mad bc you broke up with him. He will discredit himself, and people will see him for the jerk he is. I wish you lots of hugs, healing, and self-confidence. You did the right thing and will be stronger for it!! 😊
@Lexieisnonbinary
this reflects more on him than it does you. it does not determine your value, or mean that you are ugly, worthless, or anything else. what it does mean is that he has been an inconsiderate *** to you and that you should just cut off contact with him. if i were you, i wouldn't even bother breaking up with him. i'd just block him on everything and ignore his presence irl. it hurts, but it will be okay, and you will be okay, because you deserve love, care, compassion, and people who value you.
@Lexieisnonbinary
Im so sorry. You are so brave to face through this :) I hope you find someone who actually loves you for you, and I truly hope that your "boyfriend" learns his lesson. Nobody should be able to do that to people.
@Lexieisnonbinary omg he sounds like a *** and even if I don't know what you look like I think your beautiful
