Hello people :) Im Luka,and this was the idea of pillarstones that occured to me once i wrote on my notebook,so please do feel free to tell me would you like to add something or change,tell me your opinon.

6 Pillarstones of getting your life back in control.

1.Being selfish is a good thing.

When it comes to your goals and time,there is no denying that you have to be a little bit selfish when it comes to it,because if you arent you are have constant distractions and everyone will bother you so you will not be able to complete your goals.

So,DO demand for some "me-time" when it comes to your goals and your stuff.

2.Time is always now.

For everything you work and strive for,even the smallest of actions made NOW in this moment contribute to higher goal that you pursue,no matter how small the action is,so get into habit of doing small actions in present that will culiminate in big abudance in future.

"Best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago,second best time is NOW."

-Chinese proverb

3.Let the actions speak.

Okay,so i would like you to imagine this scenario,you are stuck in small city and zombie invasion has just begun!you have 2 people,one of them is skilled with guns,has fought zombies before invasion sprung,and has gun collection in his household.Other person however,only talks big but never made any action or effort in his life to make it better.You obviously would want someone who has experience and has fought them before,same goes in your life.Dont cling to status,wealth or somebody s attitude,its the action and deeds that counts :)

4.Dont be scared of changing and modifying your goals.

There is nothing wrong in changing or modifying your goals at any point of your life,so dont feel guilty about it,its just same as adding a pinch of sault in your meal so that it tastes better.Same with goals,you modify and change so that they can fit your life :)

5.Dont be afraid to say NO.

You cant please everyone in this Universe,and if you do you will just end up as someone who has no strength to stand for his values,therefore you will not be seen as anyone in this world,and you will just be used around being known for your people pleasing,so dont be afraid to say NO to things you dont like or disagree,because that is also just part of life.

6.Focus on one step at a time.

I know we all have this picture in our head that for sucess we have to push 100 percent forward and pass all the obstacles and if we dont we should feel guilty,but thats not how sucess works,for sucess there were thosuands of small steps that contributed to big goal out there.

For this example,lets say you want to overcome your fear of spiders.

So,you can for start look at pictures of spiders,then get close to one,then try to touch one,then maybe hold one,if regular spider is not scary anymore then you move on to bigger spiders gradually..etc etc

Focus always on that one small step in front if you,it will lead you to bigger steps.

Wish you all good luck in attaining your happy and sucesfull life,and please do tell me what you think and is there anything you would change or add :)

@Kismet237