Breakup advice
So this guy that I've been consistently seeing got upset with me over text for asking him a question about a new girl that started following him on social media (he's out of town for a month and admitted that he still has a dating app but that he just chats on the app to pass time and hasn't been seeing anyone but me). We aren't exclusively bf/gf but he's reassured me before that he's only seeing me. This time instead of reassuring me he said "don't talk to me." I did not reply to that obviously, and we haven't spoken now in several days. I feel like he misunderstood me and thought I was accusing him of being with another girl. I was just curious how she found his social media since he has a pseudonym and is private. Usually when he shuts me out like this he will at least view my stories on social media, but he isn't doing that despite being active online. Does this mean he doesn't care about me anymore? I miss him and I wish he didn't shut me out like this. I want to reach out to him to explain myself but since he said "don't talk to me" I feel like I should leave him alone. Will he come back?
@willingLemon5769
hey there. I'm sorry with what you've been feeling ever since you last spoke with that guy. Seems to me, based on what you wrote, he isn't very open or trusting with you when you were simply just being curious, which I can understand. It's also understandable to feel concerned based on his last message. And you did right by complying to it.
But since there was no clear explanation as to why, and after several days of no new message or notification from him, I believe it's up to you whether you want to check up on him and ask him how he is and then maybe both of you may hopefully clear this up. I also believe that it is unfair that he may have left you hanging. Anyway, I hope you'll figure out what's best for yourself. Take care. - Oak
