I am in the midst of a post breakup crisis

He said we will still be friends and we can contact each other as usual...

That sentence made me to have expectations upon him that at least i could hear his voice and that's enough rather than a complete fullstop..

He has moved on...and he is strong...

Im still trying my level best to move on and not contact him frequently like last but..

But even though he told me that we would still contact each other like last time , I noticed that that the last time he contacted me... I called him once a day after that subsequently for 2days.. he answered and spoke for less than a minute or two..

And yesterday i had an issue and i wanted his opinion as he is involved in it..

I called him.. he spoke for 5mins.. and he said he get back to me with an answer.. i really thought he would call and give me the ans.. but he didn't.. he ended up sending me a voicenote...

Many things are running on my head... like who is currently with... and thinkinh bout things that he is doing with that person exactly like how he did when he was with me is so damn mind stabbing...

Really want to be strong... why is it that men can easily move on? He even sounded strong and happy when i called him the other day...