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High schooler

Does it get better after high school, especially for those who were clumsy, awkward, socially anxious , and basically irresponsible. I wish I could just name a diagnosis but I don't know. And idk what's my issue cuz nobody seems to have my issues.. it's like a bum loser everybody gotta avoid

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User Profile: AsherTree
AsherTree Tuesday

@sheuebdhixiene

I will get better if you always work on your situation regularly..

As for if adulthood better than school that will always be up for debate..🌲

@sheuebdhixiene There are pros and cons to both, personally I only found my first proper friends in life when approaching things as an adult. I felt very different to everyone at school. 

The big difference, though, wasn't age but the fact I was going to things where I found people with similar interests. You can do that now. I don't know what your interests are, but whether it's a running club, arts class, TTRPG game or whatever your interests are you can find your people. 

We just have to make sure we don't give up looking.

User Profile: Rexo
Rexo Tuesday

@sheuebdhixiene I understand your frustration. What are your goals for the future and what are you doing to achieve them ?

User Profile: warmStar7390
warmStar7390 Tuesday
@sheuebdhixiene hi! Clumsy, awkward, and irresponsible ex high schooler here, It does eventually. I’m still a clumsy and awkward adult but I’ve found a balance and have accepted it. Nothing is wrong with you. You are just you and being different isn’t always a bad thing!