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I need urgent help :(((

User Profile: BrandonCYK
BrandonCYK October 24th, 2023

There's this one person who used to always help me out in my toughest times... On and off we would be having fun together. But now I feel the person has been ignoring me and doesn't care when I go through hard times... What do I do? How do I move on? Should I even move on? Should I be feeling guilty as it could possibly be my past mistake?

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User Profile: Yougotmyback
Yougotmyback October 24th, 2023

Hi! That sounds like a really tough spot in. Have you talked to them about what's causing this? Sometimes it can also be because the other person has need for a break too. So, I think direct communication can help better and won't leave you confused. 🌸

And if they still ignore you, then you'll have to focus on yourself. You shouldn't feel guilty till you don't know the issue. So, a conversation is all you need. :)

Hope this helps!

User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 October 24th, 2023

@BrandonCYK hugs you ❤ please know there are people here you can reach out to. And that we care about you here ❤ with your friend. Do whatever your brain and heart tells you ❤❤ gives you a giant tiny hug

User Profile: patientSky1754
patientSky1754 October 24th, 2023

@BrandonCYK

The first thing to try is talking to them, ask if everything's okay and if there's something you might have done to cause this change. Sometimes, it's a simple misunderstanding or something that can be worked out. But, don't beat yourself up – it's not necessarily your fault. People and relationships change, and sometimes it's just part of life. In the meantime, make sure you have other people in your life for support, and focus on taking care of yourself