Negativity Is Practiced, So Is Freedom 🌱

I Came across this. It stayed.

People say, “How are things going?”

You say, wonderful 

They say, “How’s life?”

You say, terrific 

“Relationships?”

You say, couldn’t be better 

“How is your health?

How are you feeling?”

You say, great ✨

In other words, don’t talk about negative things because when you talk about negative things, you actually increase them and you draw more of them into your life 🌿

Look at the people that you know who have problems.

You notice that the people who have problems all the time

never seem to solve their problems.

How?

By how people talk about their problems 🗣️

To him that has, shall more be given.

From him who has not,

even that which he has

shall be taken away 

Now this is another critical point

with regard to relationships and I learned this again in my studies It is that each of us has a certain amount of suffering

that we have gone through,

and people fall in love with their suffering ❤️‍🩹

People live their sufferings.

As a matter of fact, they feel they have paid for it.

They have thought about it.

They have lived for it for so long

that most people are very reluctant

to give up their sufferings 

You can’t talk them out of it.

“Why don’t you just forget it?”

“Why don’t you just put it behind you?”

“Why don’t you just get on with it?” 

They say,

“Well, I can’t do that.

Do you know how much I have suffered?

How much emotional investment

I have put into this relationship,

this job, this career, and so on?” 🕊️