Suggestions for marriage life
Myself satvi, seeking for your guidance.
I had a marriage of 12 years and have 2 kids. Recently my husband cheated me with online girl. Now he is confessing, he dont like body so he is unable to intimate with me, due to extreme urge he did it.
He dont want to break this family, yet the same time he is saying I will live without sex. He is asking some 2-3months of time.
What you guys suggest. Divorce is main option. Whatelse you can suggest
@helpfulPrune2008
I'm sorry that he cheated on you, that wasn't right and was never going to help your marriage at all!
I hope that you both can sit down and communicate before making any rash decisions .
If he doesn't like his body then he can get back into a health and fitness regime to feel better about himself.
If it is your body he is talking about, I wouldn't accept that, you had his children!
You are a wife and a mother and you built a life together.
You deserve more respect!
I hope you can both hear each other out and figure if there is an amicable way forward!
💜💕
@helpfulPrune2008
We are not here to suggest because it's your life you are the expert on, and your choices...
Still, I believe nobody deserves to be cheated and betrayed.
However, I know that a marriage lasting many years is not the same as the excitement, mystery and thrill of the first weeks together. The physical spark is going down, boredom and routine creep in. Concerned about raising the kids and earning money, tired and overworked, you may become more friends, roommates and co-workers, but no longer romantic lovers... Yet, this is the moment when other things keep people together, like: loyalty, trust, respect, faith, shared memories, desire to be a family...
I think a good starting point—no matter what comes next—could be your husband definitely keeping away from online dating sites. And maybe some couple therapy could help you find the source of the problem, before you both make any irrevocable decisions?