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Proud of Myself Because: I've learned more about myself and done new things.

User Profile: CalBear1996
CalBear1996 September 20th, 2015

Back in April/May, I was having some really bad relationship issues. To make a long story short, my girlfriend wanted to dump me to be with someone else. She essentially lied to me about why we broke up and it left me really broken and distraught for weeks. I lost all motivation to do anything and didn't feel like I was happy anymore.

Fast forward to today, I've since recovered from my break-up. One thing I learned was that I relied on my (now ex) girlfriend for external validaiton and love. I needed her to remind me that life was worth something because she cared about me and stuff. I've now realized that the only person I need to be happy is myself. Being alone is less daunting than it used to be. I'm actually much happier as a single person now. I've learned that I don't need anyone, especially someone doing toxic things to me, to be happy, that I'm fully capable of being happy on my own.

I'm doing well in school and enjoying all my classes. I'm involved in multiple campus organizations and have awesome housemates I live with off-campus. I've even begun an application package for Marine Corps Officer Candidate School, and so far my recruiter is impressed with my background and accomplishments as a person and a student. Life is great, and I don't need someone else to make it so.

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User Profile: Pandas4ever
Pandas4ever September 20th, 2015

I'm proud because 7 cups has helped me to accomplish many good things. smiley

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User Profile: Anggi
Anggi September 20th, 2015

@Pandas4ever Your username is so cool! That must've been such a great feeling to be able to accomplish many good things. I'm very proud of you as well! :D

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User Profile: Anggi
Anggi September 20th, 2015

@Calbear1996 I'm really glad to hear that you managed to move past your breakup and even learned valuable lessons from it. I can see that now you know you're capable of being happy on your own. This can be such a powerful thing to realize! You're really amazing and I'm so proud of you as well. Thank you for sharing this with us. :D