Things you remember of the loved one you lost
Let's imagine we are sitting in a circle around a campfire at dusk.
There might be darkness out there, but we are together, sharing our stories, and the fire brings us light and warmth.
Someone asks "What things you remember most vividly of the loved one you lost?"
Questions:
- What things you remember most vividly of the loved one you lost? Might be a character trait, a situation, a habit, an anecdote, or any vivid memory that comes to your mind.
- How have you been feeling these days?
These questions are optional. You can add any comments you wish, as they come to your mind.
I look forward to your answers!
And I wish you all the best!
Marcelo.
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This piece was first posted as the Grief & Loss Check-In of August 1st, 2023
Momma's hugs
@CATastrophizing
I can imagine the absence of your mother must have left a deep void.
The warm embrace and tender hugs of a mother are such sources of comfort and love, a safe haven in which all worries vanish. Her arms envelop you with unconditional love. The outside world fades away. Just she and you, connected through a simple embrace.
In times of trouble or sadness, you might seek refuge in the memories of your mother's hugs, closing your eyes and feeling her arms wrapped around you, holding you, so so close...
@HealingTalk I miss his smell, I miss his cry, I miss his soft skin, his big blue eyes,, I miss him 😢
@Tinywhisper11
All my love to you, Lola!
God bless your baby and you!
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1. I remember when Gary would bust into my old apartment door with MGK blaring and would ask me the weirdest questions. An I still remember to this day his famous little line, "I'm ole gary! Stay out me waters."
2. I feel good but I know his death anniversary is coming up so I feel the dread that he will be forever 21 and I will still be aging. His laughter, his voice, his quirkiness will forever be burned into my mind. I don't think a day goes by that I don't look at his picture on my desk and when I'm having a rough day ask him questions, like he is going to answer.
@WinterRose9
Thank you for sharing these deeply personal reflections about Gary. The grief you express is palpable, and it's completely understandable to feel overwhelmed by memories. It's also common to project ourselves into the future and feel the sting of losing him at such a young age. Your vivid descriptions of him with MGK and his "ole gary" line paint a picture of a playful, energetic spirit. Honoring the joy he brought can help keep his memory alive in a positive light.
Talking about Gary, sharing stories with loved ones, and even asking him questions in your mind can be therapeutic ways to keep him close and process your grief.
I remember how caring she was...
@SurfingStich0411
That's such a lovely tribute. Even without knowing her personally, I can tell she was special.
@HealingTalk
The last couple of years until I lost him I felt that I finally got that connection with my older brother that older siblings get, like a silent knowing smile across the room when we both thought something was funny. One of the things that's gonna run through my head forever.
@Maddog9697
That’s wonderful, that you reached that deep level of connection and mutual understanding.
No words needed. Like twin sowls.
This is a beautiful memory to cherish about your brother.
Thank you very much for sharing it here, Maddog!
My grandma..She loved and cherished me sm and was suffering on bed for the past sm months..She is at peace now but her loss has brought massive hurt to me...She was on bed hence relied on me always to feed her to get her up the bed everything.I miss doing everything for her.Her voice calling me out her smile her praises everything.I hope my sweet angel is at peace and is watching over me.I miss you i miss you alot💗
@decisiveBalsam8464 I'm sure she is at peace and watching over you always<3 I can tell you both shared a beautiful bond and I'm glad you had each other. I hope you're doing okay<3