Betrayal
I have been talking to a girl for 4 years now first year she catfished me and lied to me that she is the same age as me I then found out she was a carfished by someone and she then addmited to catfishing and told me she is in fact 2 years younger…we went out a couple of times and I considered her my best friend…2 days ago she told me she lied about her age and that she is 4 years younger than me…I just feel so bad and betrayed and uncomfortable since she is so much younger and I do not know what to do since she was the only person I could tell everything…
@exuberantZebra5552
Is the age difference such that it could lead to legal problems? I’m sorry that you’ve been betrayed like this. I think it was selfish and immature of her, but I also think she may have been feeling desperate to be in the company of someone of your value and kindness.
If the age difference can get you into trouble, your options are pretty limited.
Do you think there’s a way to re-establish trust after she’s been carrying on this deception?
