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User Profile: appleinsuzhou
appleinsuzhou June 25th, 2025

My ex got married last week, after discarding me just a year ago and getting engaged only a month after our breakup. He filed a k1 visa and brought someone from overseas.

Seeing their wedding pics hurt more than the breakup itself. I don’t even understand why I feel this way. A year should be enough to move on, but here I am again, stuck in this darkness 💔.

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User Profile: Voodvins
Voodvins June 25th, 2025
@appleinsuzhou Things like that can be really upsetting, yes, it's sad. But it's been a year, sometimes people can change their lives dramatically in a year. Maybe it's a grudge because you perceived your relationship more deeply than he did. But try to accept it and even tell yourself that you also have the right to live a full life and do something for yourself. Don't you?
User Profile: appleinsuzhou
appleinsuzhou OP June 26th, 2025

Thank you for your response, I really appreciate it. The thing is, he kept in touch and made me feel like we could work things out, even acting jealous, all while he was engaged and I had no idea! If he had just been honest and told me he loved someone else, it would’ve been different. But someone who once said he never wanted to marry again ended up getting married, all while making sure I couldn’t move on, it feels like a double betrayal.

I’m doing my best to move forward. Thanks again for your thoughts.

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