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User Profile: 1309mw
1309mw November 12th, 2025

I invited someone from a dating app over for a second time.

While here she had a medical emergency. I did CPR until EMS came. The worked on her for 20 mins in my bedroom floor and pronounced her dead. I don’t know anyone she knows, no family, no friends, I didn’t even know her last name until they told me. I have no one to tell I’m sorry. No one to see if she spoke highly of me after she came the first time. Everyone left and I was just left sit here. I was told I would get a phone call from the investigator when the file was closed. I don’t know how to feel. I can’t close the loop in my brain of what happened and why. I’m not family so I’m not even allowed to know exactly what happened to her.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 November 12th, 2025

@1309mw

I'm so sorry this happened to you.

How heartbreaking.

And so unusual for this to happen when you'd only just met.

So much unprocessed grief

Sending you my best wishes 💜💖

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