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User Profile: redCup9686
redCup9686 August 25th

Am 27. I lost my grandfather who's equivalent to my father few months ago. I am note able to cry or accept still. It's like a sharp shooting pain i feel sometimes like everything is collapsing. And added to that my boyfriend from 9 yrs told me he cheated on me. Like i feel i don't have anywhere to go now. All the love disappeared in a short span from my life. I lost trust. I lost love. I cannot cry. I cannot eat or sleep well even.

Help me please.

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User Profile: navymangos
navymangos August 26th

@redCup9686

Im so sorry youre going through this, the amount of grief and hopelessness youre feeling is so understandable. That feeling of someone you love passing, its one of the hardest thing ever. So many people say time heals those wounds, but truly it just gives you time to learn to live with it, you will feel it less but its never gone. So try to rememeber those feelings of love and warmth of your grandfather, rememeber the good memories and try to live the life you know he wouldve wanted for you. Its even worse to find out you were then cheated on by someone you trusted and loved, you deserve someone who will love and cherish you. Youre not alone here and were going to support you 💛