I dont know what to do
Hey everyone i really need help.. sorry for my bad English. But i am in love with someone… and he is still in love with his ex. I guess that’s okay, but six months ago we did everything together, we saw each other every day, and the way he looked at me was completely in love. We were like the perfect couple. But in September, he said he wasn’t over his ex and therefore didn’t want anything to do with me anymore.
We still see each other a lot because we have the same hobbies, and when we see each other, we always pretend to be in love and he invites me to meet up. Of course, I say yes, because I want nothing more than to see him. To this day, I am still madly in love with him. And I hate it because he gives me false hope and the next day makes it clear that he doesn’t want me.
Meanwhile, I heard that his ex wants to commit suicide, and he keeps thinking about that now. I haven’t heard from or seen him for two weeks and it’s killing me—not only because I miss him and love him, but also because I’m worried and want to be there for him. I honestly don’t know what I can do anymore. I’m completely falling apart inside.
@shyPlace1867
I know it's hard but you need to focus on you.
And not on someone whose attention is elsewhere.
He made his decision.
You deserve the same energy back and if you continue to pretend you are in love, you won't heal or move on and you'll continue to hurt 💙
You deserve to be chosen. Even though it’s so painful, once you move on you open yourself up for something else.
You deserve to be chosen. Even though it’s so painful, once you move on you open yourself up for something else.