Lying to my gf
Hey everyone, I’m new here and don’t really know if this will help but giving it a shot. I recently have gone no contact with gf bc of my patterns of lying. And I really miss her and I don’t know how to change and show her that I’m here to grow with her.
@communicativeKiwi5313 hi sweetie welcome to our cups family 💗 that's a tough situation your in🙁 but just know we all make mistakes so now I think a honest conversation with her will be the right step forward 💖 it might be scary to do but if you don't try then you lose both ways. Gives you a giant tiny hug 💗💗 good luck 💖
Hey, thank you for being open and honest — that takes a lot of strength. It sounds like you’re really sitting with what happened and genuinely wanting to grow, and that matters.
Change isn’t about flipping a switch overnight — it’s about small, steady steps and doing the hard inner work, even when no one’s watching. The fact that you’re here, trying to understand yourself better, shows you’re ready to start that journey.
It’s okay to miss her and still focus on becoming someone stronger, more grounded, and more honest — for yourself, first. Whether or not things reconnect, your growth will still matter deeply. You’re not alone in this, and I’m really glad you reached out.
