Missing my Dad
Hi everyone. I'm new here. I lost my dad unexpectedly 2 and half years ago. I know I should be over it by now, because other people have said so, but I'm not and I'm disappointing them. Any help to move passed it and make people happy would be appreciated. Thanks.
@ScarlettBlack1 hi I'm lola ❤welcome to cups ❤ I'm sorry you lost your dad😞 and hey! There's no time limit on grieving. Especially around the holidays it can be especially hard. Your not disappointing anyone, and if you are then that's their problem not yours. It sounds like they don't understand your pain. But you came to the right place here, we understand, we care, and we want to listen and support you through this ❤ were you and your dad close? Feel free to talk and say what's on your mind here ❤ gives you a giant tiny hug ❤squeezes you tightly ❤
Hi Lola, thank you for replying. I was very close to my dad, I knew I would find it extremely difficult when he passed, but I never thought it would be this difficult and people seem to think I should be over it by now. In a way, I'm glad I came here, you reply acknowledges that it's ok to still grieve, even though others don't understand that.
@ScarlettBlack1 hugs you tightly ❤ their is no right or wrong way to grive. I'm glad you came here too ❤ our grieve community here is awsome, and we are here for you ❤ looking someone we love so dearly is hard so very hard. Two and a half years goes by at the blink of an eye. It's ok to feel anyway you feel. I hope you get all the help and support you deserve here ❤ hugs you tightly ❤
Thank you for your kind words, I'm already starting to feel a bit better about feeling the way I do. It's really nice to have somewhere to be myself and feel accepted. I hope that my experience will help someone else who is hurting.
@ScarlettBlack1 that's right ❤ your story, your feelings and struggles, will inspire and help many others. Remember this is your safe place, and it's ok to make as many posts and talk about anything you want to. We are all listening, we learn from each other ❤❤ gives you a giant tiny hug ❤