My mother
Hey everyone I lost my dad when I was 8 years old all I had was my mother and my sister...my sister became independent cause there was an 8year gap between us..... I was always the dumb one in my entire natives side family....my sister scored a perfect score in her 10th grade,,,I'm truly proud of her.... One day my toxic relatives said all sorts of things about how bad I am at reading, how I'm a phone addict, I always get less mark,... All sorts of stuffs for 2hours they scolded me but my mother how was sitting in the same Hall didn't utter a single word in my defense and she supported my relatives for scolding me more..... After that there was constant fighting in my family between my mom and sis and I was always stuck in between and no one asked me anything...... After that my mom bought a house near her bff's house and she put me to the same school where her bff's son went he was two years older than me and we were like bus-mates,,, my mom's bff's husband was a house designer so he started to design the closet and the interiors of our house.... Soon he started to come to our house regularly when I was 5th grade , him and my mom would always take me to some fast food place and talk I didn't get it at that time but when I was 6th I got it.... She was having an affair with her bff's husband she didn't even care about her bff nor their son who I was frends with..... And that stupid guy always was good to us but I hated him because of that guy my entire 6th grade life went down everyday my mom and sister would fight about that guy,, my sister would tell my mom that maternal marriage affair is wrong but she wouldn't get it and the worst part is my mom's bff always invites my mom to her place and they are still more closer with each other.... And when my mom's bff calsl my mom to some party my mom expects my and my sis to go there with a smile and have fun with them when we had 0 interest and didn't want to go,, but if we tell no she will put on an entire crying show for hours ....... Now my sister finnaly got an amazing job and she moved out ,, right after she moved out he started coming more to our house and my mother wanted me to lie to my sister saying that I was fine........ I got good marks when I was in 6th she came to my parent-teacher meeting and started to cry in front of my teachers saying that I don't read well when I did,"i lost my husband and I walk on fence not flowers " She said that to my teachers and totally destroyed my reputation in my class......now I'm 8th I can't do this anymore thank god I found this app I can finnaly tell all this to someone ......even rn she is telling me to come with them to a restaurant when I don't want to go when I called my sister my sister started to scold me cause apparently my mom had said my sister that I was ruining her makeup products when I didn't ruin them she didn't listen to me and cut the call...... I'm rn decided to download this app and talk to some cause I can't go through this *** anymore
You are a warrior To keep that Love of the truth and hatred of Being asked to Pretend.
It’s so Incredibly hard when The people closest to you Say discouraging things. But remember, just because they are loud and near That is just the opinion of very, very few people.
There are literally millions of people out there Who want to connect With people who love the truth And hate fakeness , like you.
Why should you Care about your mom’s opinion About schoolwork? Her character is so low that she would Cheat with her best friend’s husband, If I understand that correctly, That is the lowest thing that someone can possibly do.
Why would you care about the opinion Of someone who would destroy A best friend and destroy two households? Your mom is uncomfortable around you because you are a better person than her by far.
School rewards The characteristics of success from the 1950s, But today The people who succeed best Aren’t the ones who loved School, Those people make good employees, But maybe you were born to be a business leader and start your own business, And you probably have talents really waiting To explode and Flourish if you start working on them yourself.
I run my own businesses For the last decade And they flourish Because I studied how to do Things that interest me, And I studied those things without anybody telling me, And I got a Really good college degree but That’s not what made me successful and I realize that School Only trains employees. You have your own values, You will outgrow your mother,
But I think the first step is to realize That you don’t value anymore The opinion people Who have low character. Keep standing up For what is right and ignore people Who refuse to do what is right.
This will leave room in your life to start making more friends of high character, And room to meet future leaders like you.
And I will pray for you. Your life is headed upwards and you are going places! And prayer makes a big difference in my life and yours, It really does.