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Separation from your twin flame 🔥

User Profile: Thelilbear1975
Thelilbear1975 May 26th, 2025

My husband moved out 2 days ago... While mutually agreeing that we have become two very different people, it's been the most painful heart wrenching experience of my life.

Letting go of him and letting him walk out, ripped my heart out

He needs for his soul growth to go off on his own and prove to himself that he is a smart competent person. Who can make a life on his own unsupported. He also has a ton of healing to do from childhood. I fully get it.

At the same time I see my own lessons. Of putting someone first before me all the time out of love which in the end led to resentment and not getting my needs met. I also have some healing and growing I can only do on my own .

Maybe once we both work on ourselves more things may resolve ... We're staying friends, but damn ... A twin flame runs so much deeper than other relationships... That's the mirror image of your own soul... Finally United and now ripped apart again.

Just trying to clear this... Energy is heavy and rough.. comes in waves and slaps you in the face. Today was better than yesterday .. and yesterday far better than the day before.

This would be easier if I had friends ... But we haven't lived here very long. I have literally two friends. But I guess that is better than zero friends.

Has anyone else been through this?

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 May 26th, 2025

@Thelilbear1975 😥 I'm sorry your going through this I can feel in your words how heartbreaking this all is for you🙁 but perhaps this is for the best I believe everything happens for a reason 💖 gives you a giant tiny hug 💗 I wish there was something more I could say to comfort you

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User Profile: Thelilbear1975
Thelilbear1975 OP May 27th, 2025

Thank you! It is for the best for both of us... But wow damn so hard..

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User Profile: pinkBalsam1975
pinkBalsam1975 May 26th, 2025

@Thelilbear1975 I’m so sorry. I don’t know I can say anything to help but I am going through the same thing. My fiancé of 16 years left last night. I’m heartbroken. Can’t eat, can’t sleep. Your circumstances are different than mine, but I don’t have anyone to talk to either. I can talk to you if you’d like. 

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User Profile: Thelilbear1975
Thelilbear1975 OP May 27th, 2025

Oh I am so sorry! Big hug 🤗 yeah this is hard!

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