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User Profile: rainbowreader01
rainbowreader01 June 27th, 2024

My girlfriend broke up with me over the phone while I was on vacation with my family because she didn't feel we were compatible. So, I just told her and my roommate I wouldn't be coming home to finish off the last month of our lease. I told them they could keep my stuff. I knew I wouldn't be able to handle returning home. But my roommate, who I considered a friend, is super *** at me for leaving them with lots of stuff, and refused to let my sister come over to get the stuff, because my sister would have to spend the night and they weren't comfortable with that. I told my roommate I was hurt that they wouldn't let my sister stay, and they asked me not to contact them again. So, I lost my girlfriend and one of my friends, who I would've bent over backwards for. I must be a rotten person. 

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul June 27th, 2024

@rainbowreader01 I know all this hurts real bad right now but the girl and your friend aren't worth you giving up. She sounds really immature and selfish because that's not something to do to someone over the phone when they're on vacation. Your friend is upset because you left a bunch of stuff but won't let you sister get it. Makes me wonder if there's something going on between the both of them that they're trying to hide? 


You're not the problem and you're not a rotten person. The girl and your friend - what would you think if your friend had this happen to them? Would you think it was something with you friend or the people they were around? Because I see it as them who are the problem. You deserve to have people in your life that truly care about you. The girl and the friend? They only care about themselves. Those aren't the type of people you need or want in your life

And your little brother - I know you're hurting right now but do you want to hurt him that way? By leaving him alone? That would cause him alot of pain

Live to spite them in spite of the. Make a wonderful life for yourself. Show them what they lost with you
User Profile: akunknown
akunknown June 27th, 2024

@rainbowreader01

Never give up. You have lots of supporters, helpers, friends here when you need any of us. So yes you should definitely keep on living. Please reach out to me or anyone here if you need to talk.