lost in my soul
married 8 years I stopped showing her affection due to stress of the kids so she stepped out and ended up a victim of a crime now she could step out again and *needs the attention of all guys* she is faithful but I don't know how to accept that despite getting my attention now she also strives to get other guy's attention too
@heartbrokn29
it sounds like a disconnect ....it happens more then you think.
i feel partners take each other for granted .... in my situation my partner misses the mark every time when trying to fix this .... many think well just tell me what you want me to do........ my partner asked for a list like i was going to feel special as he checks off things off a list .. it is exciting and fun when a person pays attention to you without directions...
some people do things to show affection that they feel is great ............but it is not what your partner is looking for.
I am not looking for flowers and a sappy movie type thing i want FUN and spontaneous and it is hard to PLAN spontaneous.... and the Pressure for it to work makes it awful .......like we have work tomorrow or i am tired from everything we have a 30 minute window lets pretend we are dating lol
It is more about getting a need met some women like the attention because maybe their partner does not make them feel attractive in many ways not just physical....conversations and humor etc....often meeting new people you can even feel open to expressing items you want to try or start to like .........while your spouse puts u in a box of they like ABCD and that is it...