I need advice
So I’m seeing a new guy and he makes me feel so special and appreciated and we always have cute dates…. But he does have this female friend and that’s fine with me but she’s calling him all day all the time saying things like I wish u were here etc. and tonight he went roller skating and I just can’t help but wonder if he’s with her even tho he says he’s just into me and stuff so I’ve just been in my head all day :/
what would you do?
@M0rg4nnnnn
I can see how when a relationship is new you might get nervous about a close female friend but worrying about this and wondering will only lead to issues .......
if he is just into you believe it until you have reason not to ..... IMO too many make issues that are not really there and this will snowball as the relationship progresses. ....... in order to be trustworthy ,,, you need to TRUST them.
@M0rg4nnnnn
HI,
I'm an overthinker as sounds like you may be too,
Questions to ask yourself,
Do you trust him?
Has he given you any reason not to trust him?
Is there any past history of cheating and or a relationship with her?
Now in saying that keep your eyes open, does he hide any of this from you i guess is a good question as well?
Its hard place to be in that's for sure, does he know it makes you feel?
Hey there !I've never bee in a situation like this before so i dont know if my advice bit be that helpful but i would just ask her if she has feelings for him or ask him if he sees his friend only in a platonic way and nothing else if hes starts acting suspicious and pulling away from you more and keeps hanging out with her I would talk to him about it and ask if he still loves you and wants to be with you.
if this was me and i really like the guy, i think maybe try his hobbies so you can come with him. now its a trio and you get to see how close they really are and judge it yourself. if you guys are serious he won't mind. if he gets defensive like "are you spying" just say you just want to be closer. yknow, less anxiety
