Hello - Looking for a accountability friend
Hello, my name is Catori and my goal is to kind of finnese / change my life for the better.
A bit about me : I'm in my 20s , I'm a mental health counselor for houselessness in youth communties here in PNW , I love anime , music , drawing and love to play genshin impact and Pokemon ! I love animals and I love the smell of rain. I'm a INFJ,. Taino native ( Latina/ Native American , Black)
As of today I decided I'm just going to start, because if not today or tomorrow then when ?
Some of My Goals + System :
Functional:
• Goal : Learn Spanish Fluently
- System : practice for 15 minutes a day and have a group chat only in Spanish
• Learn to drive Flutently
System: save up for driving school and learn , aim to practice 1-2 times a week for an hour outside of school.
• Having a clean home : hiring a new house keeper / professional organizer
System : cleaning up 2 times a week and giving everything a home
• Get better at art
System: practicing two times a week
Appearance:
• Maintain my weight
System: go to the gym 2-3 times a week and IF
• Finish piercing the other side of my ear
• part of my tattoo sleeve finished
•redye hair
• Eat healthy / get in a good intermittent fasting cycle
- System: make meal plans and prep
• Best by best + do hygiene and doll up everyday
• system : get out of bed earlier and commit
$:
• Build Emergency Fund (12,000)
•Save up for a car (10,000)
Energy Level + Time
•Get better at time management
System : ???? Working on this one , I know I need to make a agenda and have set days for everything and certain time frames.
What's the benefits of being my friend :
• I'm consistent
• I'm loyal
• I cook good
• I will send you pictures of my cats
• I will help you stay accountable with all your goals !
•Once a month I might tell a funny joke
@Nyxo
I know life is hard on you. Not everyone are smart in this world. We didn't have a choice, right? If we can choose, who wants to be stupid? It is especially hard when in depression and you have to go through all of this. Don't worry about grades too much because the point of school is presenting to you all the paths and opportunities so you can choose what you like and know what you want in the future. If lectures doesn't make sense and is boring, totally fine! Think about what is interesting? Do you like to draw? Or are you good at persuading people? Or you are really funny and are popular in the school? Everyone is unique. YOU are unique. They yell at you because they thought you are like the others, but you are not! Shows them you can live a wonderful life without having good grades. (By that, I don't mean doing bad things). Do the things you are interested in and work toward a goal or your dream. You could be a artist. But most artist get their inspiration from literature and English is important. You could even run for president someday. But presidents not only have to be good at talking, they need to have knowledge like history or they'll be fooled. There's a reason to learn history. We learn things to prepare ourself for the future and give ourselves more opportunities. Don't let hardship destroy you. Show everyone that you CAN do it. I believe in you. Don't put too much pressure on yourself. Enjoy great things in life!
Hey! Feel free to reach out. I think we’re around the same age, maybe it’s worth seeing if we’re a good accountability buddy fit?
Hey totally down !
@Nyxo
Hi Nyxo! You can reach out to me if you’d like! Happy to chat and see if we can set something up.
Totally !
Hi, are you still looking for an accountability friend? I see a few people have replied. Feel free to PM me and let me know if you want to chat!
I'm open to DMS !
@Nyxo hello dear catori, I can be your accountability friend.
