10 Truths
I did a little game of 10 truths about myself with another listener, and found that it was a fun way to learn about who I was! I think it would be fun to get even more people involved so that we can actually get to know one another in the 7cups community! My 10 truths: 1. I am gender-queer (feel free to ask) 2. I am a 18+ year dancer :-) 3. I believe in everyone no matter what 4. I dont have my life together, but im working on it 5. I see myself trying to go to college soon! 6. I love music as a whole 7. I have 2 brothers and a sister I have never met 8. I love to help others 9. I believe in the good in everyone 10. I know I am not perfect, but im ok with that! You dont have to share 10, but I hope you can share at least one thing about yourself!
1. I wish things could go back to how they were in the early 1900s. 2. I've never been truly open with anyone, even my family. 3. I have a constant fear of losing people, even people who I don't like. 4. I love my dog more than most people. 5. I've never felt worthy of anyone I've ever met. 6. I have a fear of loneliness. 7. I don't know how to be assertive. 8. I care way too much about what others think. 9. I'm always daydreaming about what life would be like if I were in a movie. 10. I try so hard to be happy that I end up making myself more unhappy.
we have almost all of these in common. i daydream about if life was a movie too. sometimes it seems like it could be. lol... Try and make YOU happy. you deserve happiness as well! i wish you well! hanks for sharing :)
This describes how I feel so well. I really empathize with you
10 truths... 1. I care to much 2. I daydream often 3. I love helping people 4. I stress out a lot 5. I self-harmed 6. I have bad anxiety 7. I'm bad at expressing my emotions 8. I want a cat 9. I can never remember my dreams 10. Anime is the best thing ever
Yay for cats and anime!
i like to help others too. i think its what keeps me going everyday. thank you for sharing :)
1. I lead with my heart too much. 2. I over analyze and can't shut my mind off. 3. I am the source of my stress. 4. I am a result of my childhood. 5. I struggle being alone and cling to others for support. 6. I am unhappy. 7. Motivation is hard to come by. 8. I desperately want to love myself. 9. I'm scared to love myself. 10. I need to make changes in my life.
Are you open to being loved by someone
whats one thing that you want to change more than anything? dont try and change too much. stay true to yourself. :) thank you for sharing
I know I need to love myself... And to do that I need to discover who I am... But have zero motivation to venture that route.
1. I love too easily
2. Find it hard to let go of things when I get mad or upset
3. I feel lonely even when surrounded by family
4. Sometimes I feel so worthless and invisable
5. I feel like theres something wrong me to cause people not to bother with me
6. I feel like i'm a natural mess; I have a lot of un-diagnosed problems
7. I'm 20 but feel like a kid...
8. i feel selfish for feeling ill all of the time
9. I'm trying to fill a hole by helping people but it just grows bigger
10. I have no friends and I try to make efforts but no one makes effort back
You sound like you have a lot of love to give , and all you want is to be loved and cared for .
Thank you, that's often how I feel.
It's tough because I want to be loved,by a special someone (not family - it's different)
but it ends up with me being broken almost.
So I try to give my love out since I don't need it I guess
its not hard to feel even with family around. why do you feel worthless? you like to help people, and that takes a lot of self worth. *hugs* you are not alone. Thank you for sharing. :)
1 I've only been in a couple healthy relationships 2 I struggle with extremes of anorexia and binging 3 I have nightmares constantly 4 I worry that I'm not good enough 5 I only pretend to like coffee, but I'm not a huge fan of it. 6 My menstrual cycle scares me 7 I cry everyday whether I'm sad or not 8 I don't understand people who decide abuse is ok 9 I worry constantly 10 if I had to choose between food and sleep, sleep usually wins.
You sound like you need someone you can lean on , someone to hold you and make you feel safe and protected .
i believe you are good enough to do anything you wat to do. *hugs* dont think you arent good enough. stay strong and keep your head up. :) thanks for sharing
1. I get attached too fast and easily. 2. I love music to my bones. 3. I wish I had a healthier relationship with my parents 4. I wish I had more money so I could buy the things I love llike CDs and band merchant 5. I'm scared af of the future 6. I think I have anxiety but I don't say anything to my best friend because I don't wanna take the chance of her saying I'm just nervous 7. I think I might be depressed but I'm not sure because i can feel happy too 8. I feel jealous when my best friend talk to other people 9. I don't know I really havestruggles with my gender/sexuality or its just tumblr's fault 10. I wish I were more confident
music is amazing :) what do you mean about your sexuality? if you ever want to talk about it i will be here for you. :) thanks for sharing.
1.) I try to make others happy, not myself 2.) I wish the voices in my head would end 3.) I was bullied in school for 6 Years and that's what got me here today 4.) I suffer from self harm 5.) I have really bad anxiety 5.) I feel like im bothering my friends when in talk to them about this stuff 6.) Music has helped me so much 7.) I wish people would stop judging others 8.) My parents don't know any of this 9.) I've been to the school counselor many times 10.) I wish life was simpler
while reading your truths, i felt as though i had wrote them myself. self harm and anxiety are no joke. i know how you feel. i always feel guily for talking my problems out with my friends. its tough, but i know its worse when its kept bottled up inside. Thank you for sharing :)
Okay! I'm so not stalking this thread. I'm telling you I'm not! XD But let me tell you all one thing,have a seat eh! When you look around here,you'll find the happy side,the sad side,the angry side of so so many people. Some you can relate to, some you can empathise with. Whatever the reason might be for all the other emotions except happy and its synonyms,fight them. Fight for what its worth :) I've been there,done that. I've self harmed. I gave into the urges a few times and I've got a few regrets but I can say that I'm trying. I've found people on here to pull my ear and knock some sense into me. For what its worth,they made me realise that I AM WORTH IT. I'm worth the fight I put up because I deserve happy and its synonyms. So do you. All of you. I'm sorry if this turned out to be long and off the track. But I want you to keep going,keep knocking all your obstacles and show life some sass! :D have a good day you all. Lots of love *hugs*
@Chioo you are amazing. such an inspiration to so many here. you have always been so kind and helpful when i see you in the forums. keep up the amazing work!
ps: i got that teen listener badge now, hope too see you on that side :)
*goes to pm land* yay! Glad you are on the other side!
1. I have been physically abused
2. I struggle with PTSD and Panic attacks
3. I sometimes feel like I don't deserve the people in my life.
4. I have only self harmed myself once
5. I have struggled with depression before
6. I am a talkative person. however, sometimes, I don't talk as much because I fear i will be judged
7. I have been bullied
8. I have been betrayed by my best friends
9. I feel like I don't deserve certain people in my life or certain things and this is why I try to make everyone happy even if that means that I won't be happy
10. I feel overly attached to people that are no longer in my life.
1. I over think everything. 2. I don't trust people enough. 3. I secretly want to be perfect. 4. I have a lot of trouble sleeping most nights. 5. I feel like no one around me understands me sometimes. 6. Intimacy scares me. 7. I love Grey's anatomy. 8. I feel constantly stressed. 9. I self harm. 10. All of my boyfriend's have screwed me over
Would you like a friend ,somebody who will be there for you and give you some support and not judge you constantly xc