A Fox's Venting Burrow
I wanted to make this space for me to be able to vent or rant about stuff, because I usually feel better after getting stuff out rather than have it kept inside my head on repeat. Some might be rude stuff because I'm human and things can bother me, I don't want to be mean to anyone directly but I feel it's better to let it out in a safe space than keep it eating me up inside.
I don't mind replies
I don't know why someone with such harmful views is allowed to be a listener, and a verified listener at that! Just awful, I hate having to always see their profile picture around. They seem SO self absorbed. Don't want people "seeking validation", as if that's a bad thing? Gross, there's nothing wrong with wanting validation, actually isn't that a key component of active listening? And they have such deep internalized transphobia, yeesh. If you were born male and identify/live as a woman, you're trans. Whether you like that "label" or not, it's what you are by definition. And "consensual incest", for real? You're actually letting someone with those views be a listener? Clearly no understanding of power dynamics, grooming, etc. Wonder how many people they've harmed by spreading those views to vulnerable members. It's just awful, why do I have to see them around so often. Their whole profile is just narcissistic and intolerant.
@FoxPrince that doesn't sound good ? :(
If concerned, tried reporting them?
@daisieslavendar I've never spoken to them personally, just see their profile around a lot and hate it every time. Unfortunately they have some higher up positions for some reason so I doubt anything would change even if I did report. Trying my best to just ignore them when they come up
Really...TWO of my friends got married yesterday...😔 I'm happy for them of course but just makes me feel like my life is such trash and so pointless
I really feel like I messed my life up and now it's just a waste and will never go anywhere...feels so pointless
I can't wait to never see him again. He makes me feel so awful I don't even want to be alive just so I don't have to deal with him anymore!
I literally hate him so much!!!! And he thinks he's so amazing, he calls himself basically a god and thinks he's so much better than me but he's really just incredibly awful!! I never want to see him again!!!!!!!!!
I wish he would text me more 😞 it feels like he's losing interest and I hate that... makes me feel so bad about myself, feels like no one really cares that much about me or likes me that much. I'm always the forgotten one, the backup friend, never anyone's favourite or first choice 😞
Pleeeease let me be accepted into this program 🤞🤞 I just know I could do well in it and finally open doors for me pleease
Yayyy thank you thank you!! I got accepted 😊 I hope it doesn't turn out to be the wrong choice for me like everything else seems to be, but for now I'm happy, excited, and hopeful :)
Feels like every time I take a risk and say something I wanted to, I end up just feeling stupid and like I shouldn't have said anything :(
@FoxPrince
I don't know what you're dealing with, but I think it's brave to take a risk like that and say what you need/want to say.
People who say their pronouns are "it/its" are making a mockery of trans identity, perpetuating awful transphobia, and are just the opposite of helpful. Being dehumanized as a "quirk" is not cool and it minimizes the experience of the trans community. "Yeah it's okay to treat me and view me as an object and not as a human being". Just disgusting.
Seriously, these teens need to stop with the "it/its" pronouns. It's not the progressive thing you think it is. Stop.
@FoxPrince where do you bump into all these teens?
Hi btw :) hope you're doing well!
@daisieslavendar just on 7cups. Seems to be a higher ratio of teens on here recently, impossible to avoid.
Not doing that great but I appreciate it
Yikes that might have been one of the rudest listeners I've had in a long time!!! Abandoned chats is one thing, but this listener was just so rude, ruthless, and just really doesn't know how to take basic feedback. Is asking for more reflecting/validation instead of constant advice really that bad?? I did not get ONE message of empathy from them. And then they get all defensive and say I'm "kicking them" when I didn't say a single rude thing. I just asked to please not be called dear, and that I would like less advice and more focus on my feelings. Yeesh!! How do they have so many good reviews when they have that personality...I had to block just so they'd leave me alone! They say "I have no more comments" then proceed with many more rude comments.
