Dont feel sorry for urself if you cant show affection as he shows

You may have good facial features, good smile, good personality, good nature, good divine qualities ,these may be the reasons why most people like you even love you, if you cant love him and in face of rejection he is in grief, dont be sorry about him, you have done nothing wrong and accepting love out of pity or sadness is not love , it may be a love for short duration but if he is not your type...that love cant sustain for longer period and you have to find multiple reasons to love in future to prolong the relationship which is exhausting and it is not good for both of you...so only if he is your type and you really love him , continue....valuable things must have life time warranty right?