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Kitty1694
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PathStep 1 Compassion hearts110 Forum posts13 Forum upvotes17 Current upvotes17 Age GroupAdult Last activeJune, 2022 Member sinceNovember 6, 2020
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Just an other perspective
Journals & Diaries / by Kitty1694
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 May 23rd, 2022
...See more U may think that things are to be used and people are to be loved and admired...ofcourse not in all cases...some people who try to pull you down even it is your own family members or friends or others, sense them beforehand and dont feel regret to use those kind of people for your own benefit if they are mean to you..those people deserve to be used ofcourse if they change for good as people always change sooner or later...you can be kind to them like before, till then no harm in using them, as they took your positive energy, as a compensation make them be used to get your little things done to save your time...so you wont feel grudge or revenge over them and you will not carry those emotions.
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Protect your dreams
Journals & Diaries / by Kitty1694
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 May 18th, 2022
...See more You living your life without disturbing others and trying to pursue your dreams....like it is baby stage of your dream, trying to nourish with hardwork, enthusiasm ,strategies, and trying to figure out the best possible way to reach it, you are being antisocial, calm and composed so it wont affect your dream, because only through positive way it can be accomplished. Your peaceful attitude ,calm and composed nature is taken for granted as your shyness, insecurity and some people around you may try to mock and will remind your past failures, which will lead to heartbreak, guilty and in that moment to protect your dream and to not get another such mocking from that person , you have to show your most dangerous angle to them just to protect your baby dream which they are trying to kill them with their negative discouraging words....dangerous angle means acting fiercely like screaming, throwing things on ground acting like you would not think to hurt them with that kind of anger...just an action not real...it may not be your true nature but in order to protect your dream it sometimes required to act like crazy ofcourse only acting not real, so that they will never bother you next time in your life when you are working for your dreams...
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Pain leading to detachment leading to freedom
Journals & Diaries / by Kitty1694
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 May 2nd, 2022
...See more It is really painful day , when our own parents dont encourage you while trying to reach our goal, passion, instead dont believe, showing signs of disbelief and make you know them without having a sense of guilt , despite them seeing your efforts ,due to previous failures even though me not giving up, they feeling me as an embarrassment due to late settlement, failure in front of relatives, having no boyfriend, close friends to share my pain of my lack of support from family side(only financial support), when there is no human support found in this mortal world, only then we look for God support, where we pray Him to get some peace, some strength, some perseverance, some willpower , some kind of emotional support. There is positive side in this pain, they(parents or whoever) no longer can hurt you once you understand them and feel liberated , like can get a power to live without them...infact can live in this world without anyone without any kind of emotional support. When you can handle the pain become resilient, you no longer need support from anyone, your lifetime companion will be God who is forever caring, loving , understanding and guiding. At that time you feel God alone is enough, no other is required for me to be happy, be at peace and beloved. God will take care of these things. I love you God and thank you for being with me for lifetime...💓💓💓
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Caring about others time
Journals & Diaries / by Kitty1694
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 April 20th, 2022
...See more The most precious gift we can give to others is our time...And even more precious gift we can give is valuing their time....everyone have limited time which is divided for various works and for personal space...talking casually like friendly is ok if he treats you as his friend, but if he is showing feelings over you and you are not interested , dont raise expectations by talking overnice with him, just for timepass playing with his time , heart ,emotions and feelings is inhuman . And for timepass you can hang out with friends, have phone, sports, knowing about interested topics....these all are there for timepass, if you are not having any interest over that person but if he is growing feelings over you, then talk as if not interested, but not drag for the benefit of hearing praises and appreciation, everyone knows how feelings , emotions consume time. So in view of humanity just value their time by not exaggerating his feelings. It is beneficial both for you and him . It will make you feel proud of yourself .If not done this way and for selfish purpose if you made him grown hard feelings over you, for getting love propose from him without that intention, he may take your time ,your peace with compound interest in future , he may go to any level to consume your time....so it all starts with you...at last everyone deserves to receive peace and honesty but not grief and dishonest right...
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Dont feel sorry for urself if you cant show affection as he shows
Journals & Diaries / by Kitty1694
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 April 20th, 2022
...See more You may have good facial features, good smile, good personality, good nature, good divine qualities ,these may be the reasons why most people like you even love you, if you cant love him and in face of rejection he is in grief, dont be sorry about him, you have done nothing wrong and accepting love out of pity or sadness is not love , it may be a love for short duration but if he is not your type...that love cant sustain for longer period and you have to find multiple reasons to love in future to prolong the relationship which is exhausting and it is not good for both of you...so only if he is your type and you really love him , continue....valuable things must have life time warranty right?
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Just a random crazy fantasy thought popped out
Journals & Diaries / by Kitty1694
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 April 14th, 2022
...See more A poet inside me asked me to post this, so cant help... HELLO CRUSH...I know that many hundreds of miles are separating us, i know that you may not know how i feel, i know that you are with some other person and i strongly believe that it is my place...but deep inside we are still together in some unknown parallel world, caring each other , talking and laughing together without boundaries, without restrictions, without guilty and at last felt good that it is not a tragedy but a happy ending in that parallel universe...
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Take control of your life
Journals & Diaries / by Kitty1694
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 April 12th, 2022
...See more Most priceless things for any human being are freedom, life, love, self time to rejuvenate ourselves....one should not compromise over these 4 things....LIFE one can only live the life through ups and downs taking her life as her responsibility completly....through which one can feel alive but not dead....LOVE one can only love others purely and wholeheartedly when she can love herself completly...now the question comes when a person can love herself completly....when she knows her value, her worth and accept herself completely....so those who are dependent over their spouses or boyfriends financially nd emotionally cant love him but only can feel debt over him , so she has to listen a to z ordered by her spouse...it is not love, it is an employee following commands of her boss...which is indirect form of slavery and slaves dont have heart..they are more or less robots or machines...and only material needs are obtained by giving physical needs and emotional needs by bearing their frustration, emotions over us...look if they are emotionally and phyaically available...there comes the answer whether it is love or bossism....due to which she cant love herself or anyone , its like being a puppet......if she love herself more than enough even our bf or spouse leave us we dont get that much affected...so give slightly more time to love youself than your spouse in a day so you wont feel betrayed if some unfortunate happens in future....FREEDOM Freedom means doing what ever we want, and no one should have the right to steal our freedom....getting such type of freedom you must work like do or die for your career or any kind of passionate work, improve skills enormously like i can get employed anywhere i go to any city...that kind of confidence is required.....when can we attain such state....only by being independent financially , emotionally and no one should steal our time , because our time is ours not theirs...less people less time so we can give our time less to others...we must be able to cut some people in our lives if we dont like them, so dont think that what if we may need him/her later? For that many mediators, mentors and family members are there and monetory exchange is required , so if you dont get peace cut them instantly....so one must fight for LOVE, LIFE, FREEDOM,SELF TIME TO REJUVENATE at any cost till last breath...better to be independent with little income than being under the shelter of millionaire and being in the cage with restrictions...such life is never fulfilled....never ever compromise over the above three things...any person at any time can start from scratch and get whatever we want....never lose HOPE...
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