Educational Qualification isnt enough to know if that person has higher moral values...

I grew up in a family where I saw people judging others by their certificates, educational qualifications, and job status more than by their physical appearance. So, naturally, the first thing I assumed and grew up believing was that the more educated a person was, or the more certificates they held, the better a "human being" they were.

So, I always used to try to befriend people who had good grades, came from good educational backgrounds or prestigious institutions, and so forth.

But when I got to know those people better, I found out that most of them horribly lacked moral values.  Most of their behaviour was something like this: for their own benefit, they wouldn't even consider other people's well-being. They were so consumed by their worldly affairs that they seemed to forget that there was something called the afterlife, or even karma.

Anyway, when I got sick and tired of those people, I tried befriending people who seemed wise but didn't have strong or higher educational backgrounds. But what did I find out? There are cruel, selfish, and extremely insensitive people among them, too. People who can act nice and humble towards others but can be so damned cruel when they want to gain something from them.

Honestly, I explored a lot. I used to talk to almost every kind of human being. I always wanted to learn and grow. I wanted good, wise people around me who could guide me towards becoming a better human being. The only thing I ever wanted and still wants to be so badly is a Good Human. I never cared that much about obtaining higher degrees or certificates though I love reading and learning a lot. Maybe because one thing about human beings that has always fascinated me is their character.

I immediately get attracted to people who has strong moral values, good character, kind and empathetic and wise. Because I believe that a person builds their own character. Everything else is God-given, but the character a person possesses is their own choice and creation.

I am not saying I have never met any good human beings. I have. But I am now in my 30s, and if there is one thing I have surrendered myself to believing, it is that we can never expect genuinely good "human beings" to enter our lives unless God Himself chooses to send them.

We can never judge a person completely. Character is perhaps the one thing people can fake the most, depending on their needs.

We simply need to be lucky enough to have good, kind-hearted, and genuine people in our lives.

So when someone says, "I chose the right person for me," I just want to tell them... You didn't, honey. It was simply your luck.

We humans are still not lucky enough to be able to see through other people's hearts and minds. So, if something good has happened to you, you simply need to be grateful.

Or, if you are like me, someone who always ends up meeting the wrong people (as if God wants to teach you a new lesson about bad human beings every time, just to show you the countless varieties of human cruelty and remind you why you shouldn't trust anyone with your whole being), you should simply learn to own your solitude and live through it.

This is just the only way...

Of course, all of this is based solely on my own experiences.

But yeah... At this point, I feel it's safer to live that way....