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My kids grandparents have grown impatient of waiting for me to fail as a father. In an attempt to speed up the process they've began harassing the people they think are helping me. Unfortunately for them I regular to stop being a father to my kids.
It's hard to not angry at how much his actions have affected me emotionally and physcially (health-wise). I feel like things were robbed from me. It's hard not to be angry at someone so incredibly selfish, and I feel like a fool. I don't want this pain anymore.
My boyfriend has been treating me like crap for the last 2 weeks over various things. I'm 20, and already been in an abusive relationship prior to him, so I'm wary of guys trying to take control of me.. Long story. So today we finally went out to dinner after really not speaking or talking for almost a week. We get back to my house (we don't live together), and I ask him to move his car out the way so I can park my car in the driveway. He doesn't do this.. So I'm just sitting in my car blocking quite a busy street while he just glazes over. He eventually parks his car, and by this point I'm irritated and have raised my voice to get him to move it quicker, as previously mentioned my car was holding others up due to him. My parents take my yelling at him as "abuse", and tell him to dump me right in front of me. I tell them both that a snippet of my relationship isn't their problem, in which they call me an embarrassment for raising my voice in public - no one was actually on the street. I decide rather than argue, that I take the dog out for an hour walk to calm down. I do, but immediately as I get back my dad yells at me to never speak to either of them like again and that my bf will eventually dump me. They've both threatened to kick me out, all because I told my boyfriend to hurry up and move his car.. My mother is now sending me spiteful text messages as I type this, saying that she doesn't need to take my crap because we are related and that no one will ever love me. Help?
@AFieryCupcake. Sry i cant help u with this. I think it will only make you even more angry but i still going to say. Yes. Even though relations has ups and downs. But you are a girl. If i was to be your parents, sry i going to say the same thing but not in a spiteful way and of course i won't encourage a breakup.
Why is it every time I go onto social media I only see two types of updates, the person taking a selfie in from of the Eiffel tower while drinking champagne or a sniff film.
I cannot have a conversation with my mom at all
@BraveSoul17
Feel ya on this one. Im autistic and my mum borderline and were so different.. speak different laguages even its same ;)
I hate when people say just get over your anxiety and derpression. "It's not that bad".
I'm angry cause I wasn't good enough in the essay contest
I've just been so angry lately and irritable and I don't know why! It's like I want to yell at everyone and I feel like I get angry to the point I just want to hurt myself sometimes
I'm so sick and tired of people telling me "everything will get better" and to "think positive" and then leave. I'm not a "beautiful person", I don't have a great personality. I'm feeling horrible for many years now and things only get worse. I'm done trying and I don't want to cry every night anymore. I'm just done... And I hate this heatwave!!
@LostGirl24601
*hug*
I know the feeling. There is no magic wand. No fairy godmother(soooo wish there was some days!).
But when it's so tough I feel like screaming or crying... or just laying there because it all just feels so exhausting... I take those feeligs and use them as fuel to get exercise. Even if it's just a walk. Or I go and do some time at an animal shelter. Sometimes I still feel all... "eff the world!" But sometimes it helps. And I try to envision things as climbing a mountan; if you stare at the mountain, it's overwhelming. If you just focus on a step here or there, it's manageable.
There is no perfect solution. And you may have some months where all you do is cry. But don't feel ashamed. It's a release, it's normal, and eventually it stops. Even if it may take forever (so it seems).
I wish life was rainbows and butterflies. But it's not always. And sometimes, we have to learn to focus on the little things that make us happy, or give us a mental break from ourselves and the world.
I hope things DO get better for you. And I hope you find your way through this.
@LostGirl24601 I feel the same way
I'm frustrated, angry, hurt.
Grandma got sick in May, found out it was terminal. She died a week after my birthday. The Will is being squabbled over, everyone is playing games, and trying to get around her wishes. She's been my hero for 24yrs or so, always had my back, always supported me... and she's not there anymore, and her kids, my dad, his brother and sister, are fighting with eachother while us cousins sit and watch... and grandma had stated neither one of the 4 of us would have to worry about school or down payment on a house. So that's up in the air now, with parents being greedy.
My SO has been getting more and more distant thru all of this, and talking to him has been like... pulling teeth or talking to a wall. I needed him. He hasn't been there. And we've gone from talking 24/7 to... maybe once every 10 days or so. I no longer know how to communicate with him, and the relationship is basically over. I've put 100% effort in, sent care packages, planned on doing school near him so it wouldn't be LDR... he's done nothing. Promised a care package, and it's been almost a year.
My work is in the boonies. I'm lonely. It's basically an all male environment, with most men being of the... unsafe variety. You don't make friends with them, you don't go for drinks with them, unless you want to be labeled a skank or whore, for all that nothing happened beyond having a beer. I have one female coworker, and we just started a 9 month long job where we'll only get 2 days off a month. Money is good... but I just learned she's not friend. And will not hesitate to throw me under a bus to look good.
Add to all of this... I'm doing course upgrades so I can do my undergrad in 2017, and then veterinary school in 2020-21.
Due to the above, I've pushed friends away due to being inability to be social due to work (everything is long distance), or because I'm hurting so much and so angry and I don't want to hurt them.
I feel like a great big open sore, caught between crying and wanting to punch something(not violent, I go for a run), due to the heaps of expectations and lack of personal supoort, or anyone I can lean on. There's no time to go for coffee with a friend. And ya.
I can make it. I can totally work thru this and be strong for it... but it's godawful.