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My thing that I was known for was my amazing drawing talent, but someone got a hold of my drawing book and is pretending it's their drawings, and everyone's saying I'm a fake wanna be. I was also good at drama, so people are like " your just pretending you can do anything!" Also, my best friends are hanging with new people who hate me.
My thing that I was known for was my amazing drawing talent, but someone got a hold of my drawing book and is pretending it's their drawings, and everyone's saying I'm a fake wanna be. I was also good at drama, so people are like " your just pretending you can do anything!" Also, my best friends are hanging with new people who hate me.
@Crispii04 i had someone do that to me they stole my coursework and got an amazing job in IT but the only good thing is she eventually admitted it was my coursework, got reprimanded and lost her job to me that is justice well served
I came back after a longtime on this site. Thinking of finding a solution to my suicidal nature. I just want to kill myself. Is there a way to easily die?
@Sopheee Please don't hurt yourself
If you think you may act upon these thoughts, please contact 1-800-273-TALK(8255) or 1-800-SUICIDE(7842433) I just want you to know that someone cares, please don't give up 
I can't sleep or eat properly, staying up till 4.30 am and having to get up at 5am for three nights in a row plus trying to keep two horses in work and study for exams and get good grades (I'm getting Es and Ds) My teachers are expecting me to just not ride my horses and choose homework over horses! NO WAY!
My mum keeps making me eat! I want to throw up but the shower drain in the new house gets clogged really easily and last time I purged in there it clogged and it all came up out of the drain and she kept glaring at me when she found me trying to plunger it all back down :/
The girl who I stood up for and made one of my best friends keeps lying to me about ditching me for this other girl she now calls her best friend. She keeps telling me they are going to study but my other friend walks past them sitting on the grass outside where they said they would be studying!
My horses aren't getting enough exercise because I can ride or even spend much time with them since I'm spending my nights in my freezing room (the cozy warm fire is in the living room but I can't concentrate in there because everyone is arguing in there) and i feel really shit because that means I'm gaining weight because I'm not getting any exercise because all that time is taken up by homework, and one of my precious horses has bot fly eggs on his legs so I'm really worried that they will already be in his stomach :(
Sorry if it is all petty stuff, just really needed to get it out of my head :(
I want my own place and I want to no longer be so dependent on others. I need a car as well. I need a job, I have a four day gig coming up which is nice but like I said it's only four days. I am home for the summer and I feel so dependent and it's frustrating. Constantly asking for things and I know I need to get out there and take hold of things. I can do this but fuck I can't get out of my head to get out and stop complaining about things. If I could just get out of my head. I can't wait to get back to my college campus but I am also afraid. So scared of everything and I know it's just my depression and anxiety talking. UGH.
I'm frustrated whenever my mom bad mouths and criticizes other people. I can't keep up with her because I don't like to berate others. I don't know what to do. Should I correct her.. can I tell her she's wrong?! Sometimes, she is too insensitive when she compares me to other people.. I mean who likes to be compared to others. I am unique on my own. I can perfectly see the disappointment in her face when my friends dresses more nicely, has a pretty hair more than I do. WHY DOES SHE HAVE TO MAKE INSECURITIES WORST. I actually felt very happy that I cut my hair short (when she's afraid to do so) because most girls have pretty long hairs Tell me is it wrong for me to feel this way.. am I being a bad daughter.
I get frustrated with myself for being too indecisive about the things I want in my life
I am so angry at myself. I got myself deceived by my supposedly "ex boyfriend" in fb. I gave him a picture of me because he asked for it and then he editted my pic to a nude one! He blackmailed me. He- no, SHE (yes, a girl) wanted my fb account or else she was gonna send that picture to my parents. I gave her my account because I want peace but I deleted some messages and she got mad. I deactivated my account so she can't post anything in there but she made that fake nude picture her profile pic. I asked my friends for help but I still don't know what to do. What should I do? What if my family and friends see that? What if my schoolmates see that? What am I gonna do to make that picture go away? How am I gonna defend for myself when I know I picked the wrong decision to trust people I haven't met? What am I supposed to do?
Frustration is more on my mind dealing with my 15 year old daughter who is refusing to go to school. I'm getting fed up with her as there's not much I can do to make her go. She is much bigger than me both in height and in weight. I'm so ready to give up on her.
@Starshine5
Star, has your daughter expressed why she doesn't want to go to school? Is she being bullied or does she hate her classes or . . . .
I feel like there's probably a way to motivate her to want to go to school even if it's not for the reasons you want her to go. My dad used to remind me that if I didn't go to school I would have to depend on my parents to provide for me and then I'd never get my own place to make my own rules and live how I want. That was enough motivation for me to at least pass.
If she's feeling bullied at school or lonely, maybe you could encourage her to join clubs or groups that might accept her and then school would feel less isolating?
I've vented on this issue several times and I will continue to vent this over and over and over again until someone within 7cups can address it.
Listeners tend to make their profiles very inviting, especially if it concerns issues and topics that matter. Once you're able to start chatting with them, four things usually happen (there are many more but these are the most common):
1. They're trying to chat with several people at a time which means you get little attention or you are ignored all together.
2. They claim to be open-minded, accepting, and non-judgemental but they end up being everything but that. They tell you that there is something wrong with you.
3. If you are able to get into a reasonable conversation with a listener, they will suddenly "disappear". And this seems to happen when you are most vulnerable and sensitive. And you never hear from them again.
4. The one that's the most annoying is when listeners claims to have knowledge on a subject and can engage in meaningful conversation when in fact, all they tell you is if you have talked to other people about, or just get over it, or go talk to a therapist. It's at this point that I question why they include topics in their profiles that they cannot or will not discuss. I will usually suggest to have those topics removed if they can't talk about them.
And then they disappear never to be seen again.
Some of this I attribute to the fact that many listeners here are "kids". Yeah, sure, they have gone through some rough times but they lack any real experience in being able to have mature and caring dialogue with those who come to them. And who knows how many teenaged listeners are listening to those over 18 or claim to be able to talk to adults. It's nonsense. And the truth is, real adults aren't that much better.
I don't think anyone takes this service seriously. And the ones I deal with definitely don't! Profiles are meaningless and topics for discussion are vague. Listeners make bold claims about who they are and what they're about.
Why is this a problem?
@Ranmusic
Wow. Basically I'm not going to any opinions or honest help from 7 Cups. I don't want to eventually be here venting on these issues that are important to me. I appreciate your feedback. I really hope that you get answers.
@Ranmusic I totally agree. I was a little hesitant about opening up and I just got told that if I didn't want to talk I shouldn't ask to talk.
They were rude. I don't like upsetting people, other peoples opinions is something I struggle with. I feel like I did something wrong.
@Ranmusic
I agree with your points. At the same time I have had a good conversation with a listener who was really focused on me (at least I felt so).
I think though that 7 Cups is in the process of emerging into something really good, it just takes time.
What I would suggest is making available the option for searching/browsing listeners by age (may be, when there will be enough older listeners). Also what about having some process of authorization of listeners (identification process)?
However I suspect that the developers have been already thinking about these issues - it just takes time and resources (funds, people).
