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I'm angry because my husband of 17 years was exchanging nude pics with a girl
@Ash8399
So sorry to hear that
It really is terrible when something like this happens.
What have you decided to do about it? Do your husband atleast have an explanation? Do you have any children ? @Ash8399
@Ash8399
I'm so sorry to hear about that! Have you talked to him? Maybe he just needed more excitement even tho that doesn't justify his actions. Ask him how he would feel if the situation was reversed and base the conversation on his answer. Sending hugs stay strong! ❤
I feel angry and frustrated. I was told "You should be grateful that you survived". I did not chose to be in an accident, nor did I chose to live with all the nightmares, memories, and feelings of what I witnessed in those moments. I do not feel grateful, I feel hurt and angry.
Perhaps it would help if you talk about the memories and your feelings. Perhaps if you express it it would get bettee @TrineT
i think you have a right to feel angry, nobody knows what it feels like to you and i believe in expresing emotions in order to move on
Just found out a close family member has cancer. Why does life not seem fair some times? 😡
Angry at my boss. She can go take a long walk.....
Lately I can't even talk to people, hearing them speak makes me feel really frustrated because they don't really want to talk, I tried, all they want is to punish me for not being what they want, for not being able to talk to people because God they freakin scare me.
I know what you are feeling.
often times I feel people don't really want to talk, they don't really want to be friends and secretly they wish I'd leave them alone, they are just to polite to say it. It really sucks . But I've found that that is not always the case.
♥ @DannyRodrz
I'm angry because my wife (whose has some disorders) is routing on missing a movie that she wanted to see & didn't tell me about this organized with a moms group.
ive legimitately been taking care of our kids almost every weekend this past summer on top of from November to April when my wife has some medical issues. Often times, I'm acting like a single parent when she's had too much of life and legit checks out for a bit.
Virtually everything I do is for her benefit & the kids and I give all three of them over 100% the majority of the time but I do need some self care which is usually pockets of hours here & there, never whole days or large chunks of time. Given all of this, I get extremely frustrated when I'm accused of being selfish and a problem that's brining the whole family down.
How are things better in my life when all of my friends, who are supposed to be my best friends, aren't even responding to my calls or texts?! I drop everything to help them out, and NOTHING...:
And rebuilding relationships? I wish someone told me how much work goes into rebuilding-and how much TIME! At times I want to quit, and other times I want us to sprint.
For once PLEASE....let me breathe and not cry for once!!! Why life, why?!
I am sorry that your friends aren't being supportive.
Rebuilding a relationship is a lot of effort. But It can be woeth it. Don't give up hope @niceScarf143
@TallApple138 those words alone just got me back on my feet...thank you so much....
I am glad to hear that. I hope you have an awesome week with a lot of awesomeness and fun stuff haha @niceScarf143
I'm so pissed that I have known him for two years and he betrays and breaks my trust for someone he's known for a few months. Someone who had a boyfriend when they started hooking up. Someone who is immature, self absorbed, and selfish and ruthlessly kicked her old live in boyfriend out of the house and walks around the crew lounge and only talks about him and shows people his text like a school girl. Even though she knows who I am and she talks very loudly.
I am so sorry to hear what happened to you. I know the betrayal and perhaps abandonment you must be feeling now
Someday he will realise the mistake he made ( they usually do) but then you would have already moved on, and then it would be your turn to reject him.
I would advise you to move on. Forget him. Concentrate on other stuff. Concentrate on you. Get to know yourself again, learn from this relationship. Learn what you could improve.
I find it helpful, 1. to after a break listen to break up songs ( demi lovato I really don't care is my favourite) 2. To write down all the bad about my ex and our relationship ( don't forget the good though) 3. Write down what improved since you broke up . 4. Dress up, take a few selfies. Do something to make you feel hot. 5. Do something you wanted to do but he didn't like it so you never did it. (Your favorite shirt he didn't like or that hairstyle he thought made you look weird or that pottery class he didn't think was sexy enough) just do something he didn't completely approve of.
You deserve better. Move on. He isn't worth your pain ♥
@warmheartedHuman2014
@TallApple138 thank you so much for your response. I am feeling pretty abandoned right now...I already had abandonment issues, but I never imagined he would do that to me tho. I'm trying to move on. It makes it hard because his new girlfriend is here at work with me for a few more days. She is acting like a teenager and always talking about him in the crew bar or showing her new 'friends' hai text and then squealing and giggling together. Once she leaves. I will be able to heal without having the wound poked at by her antics. She knows who I am and that frustrates me more. I'm trying to resist the urge to send him text about how disappointed I am in him...most times I fail, especially after I see her...everything about her annoys me and I can't believe he chose someone like that over me. :(
@warmheartedHuman2014 my current break up son on repeat is Beyoncé 'Best Thing I Never Had' btw
Breakups are really difficult especially after such a long time.
He probally just wanted something new ( it is his fault, not yours, him leaving you is probably his own issues you shouldn't feel bad.)
I am glad she is leaving soon, but don't allow her to upset you. She's not worth it.
I think it might be a good idea to send him one last msg, say everything you want to, tell him he hurt you, tell him you are dissapointed and that you will never give him another chance. Get closure and then break all contact with him ( but personally I don't like my exes knowing how much pain they caused me)
All of the best to you ♥
@warmheartedHuman2014
@TallApple138 I know he has a lot of issues and that he isn't really ready for a relationship. He was just lonely and had already felt like he was letting me down. He needed a win and that win was stealing another man's woman. He has even bragged to me that she left her boyfriend for him because he makes her so happy. And I know he has issues because he said he fell in love with her after two weeks, which isn't possible, and that he has rushed into his last 8 relationships just the same. I guess I thought he and I were at least friends first since things were complicated between us as far as an official relationship. But he seems to like complicated because he said all of his relationships have been or started off complicated. Logically, I know he know he is immature even at 29...and that she is 27 but acts like she is 21 so that probably makes him feel like a man( I'm 32). But my emotions are still hurt. I've already called him names and said he is the reason all his relationships crash and burn. I know I shouldn't have attracted his insecurities like that...I know I can't expect an eloquent apology from someone like him...and I know I shouldn't be hurt or take it personally, but I'm beyond heart broken by the trust lost and betrayal. I thought I meant more to him than that...I haven't told him how heart broken I am or how much I don't eat because of the stress of having to see her. She stands right in front of me and shows off his text...
I am really sorry to hear that. I hope you feel better soon [ HuG] ♡ @warmheartedHuman2014
@TallApple138 thank you. I'm trying. It just sucks because he really was like my best friend and my three best friends from high school abandoned me in the past year. He was the one who helped me get through it. Said I was amazing as they were stupid to let me go. That he was glad he had me in his life. He even seemed to be upset that I couldn't get in his ship this coming month and was worrying about finding time to see me this year...and then all of a sudden... He's in love a week later. It doesn't make sense...I know he was just lonely and down...he seems to only be happy as long as the female companion of the time is happy with him and not asking anymore of him. I miss him. I know I shouldn't miss him because he doesn't miss me...seems he just replaced me...
I am sure he didn't just replace you and somewhere in his heart he misses you but you have to forget him and move on @warmheartedHuman2014
@TallApple138 no. I'm sure he doesn't miss me. He has replaced me. He has blocked me and now messages her all day everyday instead of me. If he missed me, he would say so or at the very least, would give me a proper apology and acknowledgement of what we had. I do need to forget about him. He is a selfish immature man child who can't own up to and apologize for what he has done. Just vague and half assed attempts at apologizing and only when he gets what he wants. I gave him so much and he just threw me to the side for a 'girl' with a boyfriend so he could feel like a man and a winner. I didn't know him at all...
@warmheartedHuman2014
[ Hug] how are you doing today?
@TallApple138 hey, thanks for asking. I'm doing a bit better. She left today and my cousin is here. Just trying not to think about it. But I still miss him...
I'm really pissed,,,,so I have been very understanding with my man but how dare get call every other girl before me!!!@
I want him gone..I want him to admit to me to my face he's cheating. doesn't matter if it's just phone or text
you don't say " I love youI miss you I want you " to just anyone!!!
GET OUT!!!!! GET THE FUCK OUT! YOUR KILLING ME!
Why don't you just leave him? If he is cheating on you, he doesn't deserve to have you as his girlfriend. Just tell him, you are no one's second choice and you don't ahare your man so he should leave. Don't even give him a choice between you or them. He doesn't deserve it.
I am really sorry to hear you are going through such a thing. ♥ @powerfulMaple1852