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I'm just overwhelmed

User Profile: flutistgirl
flutistgirl September 6th, 2019

I was so scared when I got pregnant. I wasn't ready for another. But then I fell in love with my baby I was happy. That was when I miscarried. Two months of painful medical treatment later, I am finally physically not in turmoil. Over those two months, I found out that literally four of my friends are expecting a child on my. Exact. Due. Date. To the day. No one wants to listen to my miscarriage story because it's scary when you're pregnant. I've been left behind.

My husband is trying to get out of a dead end job and I'm trying to be supportive but his stress and my stress of not knowing what our situation will be in the near future just feed each other. He's trying to help me with my grief but he's overwhelmed.

My dad is cheating on my stepmom with the same woman that he cheated on my mom with. I'm the only one who knows, and I can't tell anyone because that will tear my family apart. Again.

Today I had such sharp, shooting pain in my back that I couldn't move. Wanted to go to the ER but I'm in Japan and I need my husband to translate, and he said to stop being such a bother. He hates doctors. But I cant get care in English after hours. I couldn't even breathe. I did online search of symptoms and I'm really, really scared about what I've found.

So now I'm laying in the dark, in crippling physical and emotional pain, and it's all crashing down on me. I'm scared and alone.

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User Profile: NebulaInfinity
NebulaInfinity September 6th, 2019

Hello?are you there?

Can you tell me which city and are you are in ,maybe someone from this site whose in the same area could reach you?

have you called 119? try stating your condition slowly clearly and try using only the crucial words to communicate.

try to calm down please,not everything that is written on the internet is true. your body doesn't have enough calcium right now maybe thats why you are in pain.

i hope all this will help .i'll try to contact someone to help you,i'm sorry if it only aggravated you.get well soon

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User Profile: NebulaInfinity
NebulaInfinity September 6th, 2019

@Tazzie could you help her please, i only know you as an ambassador

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User Profile: Tazzie
Tazzie September 6th, 2019

@flutistgirl

Hello! I am extremely sorry to hear about the series of unfortunate and challenging experiences you have been through and are going through. It sounds painful! Please know that we at 7 Cups care for you and your wellness.

I have a few resources for you:

https://telljp.com/ (Confidential and telephone counseling)

Once you have reached out for professional and medical help from your doctor, please join us in our Parenting & Pregnancy Support Community here! We would like to hear from you.

I will keep you in my thoughts. You are not alone.