Just an other perspective

U may think that things are to be used and people are to be loved and admired...ofcourse not in all cases...some people who try to pull you down even it is your own family members or friends or others, sense them beforehand and dont feel regret to use those kind of people for your own benefit if they are mean to you..those people deserve to be used ofcourse if they change for good as people always change sooner or later...you can be kind to them like before, till then no harm in using them, as they took your positive energy, as a compensation make them be used to get your little things done to save your time...so you wont feel grudge or revenge over them and you will not carry those emotions.