my journal: various subjects, opinionating, CW at times
The title explains itself.
If you're interested in the ramblings of a middle-aged man with chronic conditions who, at times, sees things a little too clearly for his own good, then read on.
Sometimes I get political, but it won't be all the time.
I don't mind comments in general but if you're going to differ with what I write, that's fine--as long as you can explain your position clearly & reasonably. Rants, shouting & general incoherence will be ignored or flagged, depending on the situation. Try to remember that not everyone else in this world holds your beliefs.
Every so often I may post art or snapshots of projects I'm working on.
If you're still interested after reading all the above, great. (I do wonder at how much time you have on your hands, though)
After giving it sufficient time (& remembering a few things I discovered a while back), I've come to the conclusion that this place is no good for me.
It might be great for some of the members...no doubt there are people here who can't get through the day without logging on & talking to a listener or their Cups pals. But I do not draw any solace or peace from this community. Meaning that in my case it doesn't fulfill its principal function. So there's no reason for me to be here any longer.
Sorry Twisty, Eyes, whoever I missed...(is there anyone else who actually reads all this dreck?) I enjoy talking to y'all but that isn't enough to keep me here. Not sure what else I can tell ya, if anything....
This account will stay open for a few days...post replies if you want. Will try to get back here at least once more this week.
And with that...
@slowdecline48
Well. We had a good run, didnt we? Youve been a huge support, through everything. Despite our many differences, too. Im glad I didnt judge you hastily, in the beginning. It would have lost me a pretty great uncle.
Whats there to say? I hope the weather favours you, I hope your pains will be scarce, I hope that you live many lovely years of life, I hope that all this living will turn out to have been absolutely worth it.
And if youre ever to return...well, you know where to find us.
Heres to you, Uncle Slow. Long as I live, I wont forget ya
@slowdecline48 Well Sh*t. I hate to see you go but I understand. It's not the same place it was when I first joined. It's why I limit the time I spend here anymore.
Take care. It has been nice getting to know you. I can understand getting away for a bit when you need to. Feel free to come back though. It is nice to have a place to vent.@slowdecline48
@bestVase7265 @mytwistedsoul
Thanks, all of you...I appreciate the thoughts. Given one of the reasons I'm leaving, I should repost a security reminder. Change your passcode & make it nice, long & complicated!
Also - be careful when finding a Listener on here, @unassumingEyes. It's ridiculously easy to "qualify"--all you gotta do is fill in a test (form) with multiple-choice questions. If you answer them wrong & fail the "test" you're allowed to retake it until you pass. I've read a couple disturbing posts from members about certain Listeners...taking (or trying to take) the convo in a personal & unseemly direction, or giving s**tty advice. Caveat emptor...especially when the service is supposedly free.
@slowdecline48
Thanks for the advice 🤍 ive had bad listeners before (im talking creeps) but ive- luckily- enough awareness to report them and end such convos immediately. But listeners have let me down so much, i dont know if ill ever try them again. If I do, I'll keep your word of warning in mind..
I haven't used any listeners in years. I found a little corner with a few people. That's all I do on here now and it has served me okay. @slowdecline48
@slowdecline48 Hate to see you go, @slowdecline48. It’s been good—loved hearing your thoughts. Hope you have good days ahead.